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I'm incredibly touch starved to the point it's fucking with my head and making me consider "Damaging" myself. Some nights I cry myself to sleep. I've given up dating, but I just want touch, all I want is a hug that's it.

I just want a platonic hug now and again from a woman so that I can at least be touched a bit, but I don't have any woman in my life or friends let alone female ones, so the only chance would be a stranger. The problem is I can't figure out how to ask for one without being creepy if that's possible at all.

I've considered going to the bar and maybe offering to buy someone a drink or give them some money for a quick hug but how is that not creepy as fuck to ask someone you don't know? I don't have an ulterior motive or have any kind of intent or goal I just want a hug now and again that's it, but I can't figure out any way to ask for one from somebody without looking creepy AF.

Are there any circumstance where you might give a stranger a hug because they asked and really wanted just wanted one and nothing else?

I am 29 and always stayed away from dating. I’m not the most handsome guy in the world, not the tallest, richest. That’s what it boils down to
I don’t want to be second best. My ego can’t deal with that. Also also I’m not sure if women are ever happy and just want more and more.

Do y’all believe MJ actually had an active dating life? Serious question because I always hear about secret relationships with nothing to show.

Can we be real? In MJ’s 50 years on Earth, he was only ever connected to his two wives, Lisa Marie Presley and Debbie Rowe, and the general consensus is that Debbie was just a glorified surrogate. So that leaves us with ONE (1) woman.

Personally, I believe MJ was celibate for a majority of his life or even possibly a virgin until he met Lisa, but that’s unpopular here, but like, why? There is no evidence of anything else, well, except that one other thing.

In fact, his love life is so dry that his own fans have to either believe what I do and/or believe that LMP was his true love (which is fair considering they both claimed each other).

or believe he was with Stephanie Mills (who he never claimed)

or that he was with UNDERAGED Brooke and Tatum (who both refused to claim him)

or believe that he was with Diana Ross, which would make her a predator because she knew him since he was 11 and was an active part of his childhood (but she also never claimed him, and he himself said that what he had with Diana was in his head).

So, like, does that not say something? Those who believe he was outside acting up, please explain it to me.

Please be honest although I'd appreciate it if you weren't rude, I just want to see what the results are and hear some feedback from the female perspective. Essentially the point blank of it is I'm not even close to an appealing partner.

I live off less than $1000 a month before rent if I lost all my spare weight & trimmed my beard, I am MAYBE a 5 out of 10 in looks. I wouldn't say I'm ugly but saying I'm attractive is just pity or comforting flattery and I know it.

I struggle a lot with mental health & depression & have enough baggage from multiple traumatic events to fill a C-130. I'm ADHD, OCD & Bipolar and even on my best days it shows. I'm medicated & in therapy but there's limits in certain cases to how much you can change because a lot of it is chemical because my body chemistry is all messed up.

My brain often bounces between giving me way too much dopamine & not giving me any which makes it hard to keep my emotions stable. Obviously its stressful not just for me but the people who have to see it & I have problems with my speech patterns being too loud on accident even when I try not to and aware of it. I also have a robbery felony from a guy I was lied to about him being an attempted rapist. "Vigilante justice situation but she lied."

The one thing going for me is I try to be a good person & make sure to focus on my partner to make sure I meet their emotional needs not just their physical ones. In the past when I've attempted dating, I've done things like bring flowers made picnic baskets personally to go on a lunch date in the park etc. There have been times where I listened to woman cry comforting them 6 days a week from 10PM-3AM on days I was busy running off 2-4 hours of sleep for literal months.

Basically, I'm average or bellow in every way except for the fact I'll do everything I possibly can to be the best partner I can, stand up for them & make sure they feel truly loved & valued. That's it. That's what I bring to the table. Love and respect.