Search Results: is it selfish of me

Am I overreacting, is this normal when living with your parents?

I’m a 19 y/o female and I still live at home. I have 3 younger siblings and mother with a chronic illness. For the last 5 years I have found increasingly stressful to live at home but I’m not in the financial...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

Just broke up, she said she hates me and many more things. Feel down, any words of advice?

Hey guys so, I just broke up with my 5 year girlfriend. We had a toxic dinamic were she had al the privildege and I all the obligations. She is very beautiful, did modeling and I guess know her beauty made her accostumed...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Is it normal to be disgusted with pregnancy and birth?

Hello, good people. I want to confess some of my darker thoughts and survey if they are normal or not. Since as far back as I can remember, I've found pregnancy and birth to be absolutely disgusting. The idea of a womans...

NicknameShirt

Xper 6 Age: 30

Girl's Behavior

Girl’s , why do you say this to your man? what is your intentions?

I heard girls’ say this to their men and feel it’s so disrespectful , I am going to live my life and do what I want to do? I am not worrying about anyone. I’m just going to live my life , Why would a girl say that to her...

Master Age: 48

Society & Politics

Doesn’t it seem like so many more people in this world are depressed and sad?

No matter where I go , store , restaurant , social media , I constantly hear negativity coming out of people’s mouths , this person did this , this person did that , this person did this to that person etc. It just seems...

Master Age: 48

Is it okay to gift my girlfriend a 50 things I love about you book for her birthday?

Hi, im actually an artist and for my girlfriends birthday i painted some pretty pics from her trips that she went to this year, but in just normal days too i sometimes surprise her with drawings and paintings so i wanted...

ilovemygf

Xper 2 Age: 25

Should I help a girl who rejected me?

So this girl rejected me making me hurt a lot. Now she says she needs some help from me. Of course as a "stranger" I don't have to help her but would that make me look mean/selfish or wanting to take a revenge on her for...

Anonymous

(25-29)

When did you realize how selfish people are and did it shock you?

I realized that because they will ask for you to accommodate them but they will not do the same when you ask for something unless it’s easy for them. Many will flat out ignore you when you ask such as via text. But if...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

He wouldn’t take me on a date until I brung it up. Who is wrong in this situation?

I started “dating” a friend I had known for years. Except we never went on a date. It felt like I was settling for less because all we ever did was hang out at my place. But our schedules never aligned and he worked 3...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Do you crack up when you hear a Girl say , She doesn’t need a man?

You clearly know she is talking out her ass and is a selfish person

Master Age: 48

How Do I Look?

How do I look and tips for being social?

Forgive my bad pictures, I just don't have any good pictures because of my non existent social life. I am doing my little honest effort and picked my fat shitty self to some productive guy, working out (still pretty fat )...

warsevf

Xper 6 Age: 32

How can someone be so thoughtful, nice, put you first, care for you then turn everything off?

How can someone be so sweet. Do everything with you, listen to you, put you first, push you to be a better person, been there for you, then when u jump into a relationship with them they want to l control you, they want...

Beccaasaar

Xper 5 Age: 27

Valentine's Day

Am I being selfish?

I’m currently with my boyfriend of 3 months and it’s now Valentine’s Day. Ever since we began dating we haven’t had a single date or outing. I was hoping today we could go out but he has yet to even plan anything. All I...

avony12

Xper 7 Age: 27

Do you think this is true? A guy takes commitment more seriously than a Girl does?

I am in the middle with this , cuz it mainly comes down to that individual person but with my experiences with girls it seems Girls’ want commitment but only on their terms , like a girl doesn’t really know what it means...

Master Age: 48

Guy's Behavior

What does “.. for my own selfish reasons” mean?

Context—Alright so boom I was working at this company for close to 30 years. There was a time I worked w/ this one guy for quite sometime before I moved to a different location within the same company. Yaddie yaddie yadda...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I was influenced by others and broke my best friend's heart unwillingly?

They filled my head with so much wrong stuff that I didn't think clearly at some point, and I talked to her really harshly and said thing that I can’t undo. Now, after 6 months, I realize I was the wrong one because I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why do I think I’m sexy and coworkers are always staring at my ass?

My ass is flabby and hairy beneath my jeans. Also I am stick thin. None of this is sexy. Yet I think I’m some sexy girl guys wanna date. Meanwhile the most I can get is perverts aged 48 and over asking me out. I’m boring...

Ndithfnf

Xper 2 Age: 32

I influenced by others and broke my bestfriends heart unwillingly?

I was influenced by others and broke my best friend's heart unwillingly. I used to meet with her every day, talk on the phone, and we used to know everything about each other. Six months ago, all of my friends started to...

Rautnaku

Xper 3 Age: 25

Why do girls have a hard time understanding boundaries in a relationship?

I hate to be judge mental but from my experiences with Girls’ Most girls’ are just plain out selfish and only really think of themselves, Like they want their partner to eliminate things that he enjoys in life to appease...