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As we know, most women find the vast majority of men physically unattractive due to not being born with physical traits out of their control. These traits include, race, height, skeletal frame, early male pattern baldness, hair colour etc. We also know that women in their prime tend to hyperfocus and date the hottest and/or richest men and often use sex to try to secure a relationship. Granted, some women are smart enough to lock on an average guy, who shows high potential to be a successful earner and gets him to commit to her early.

Now, for the men who this doesn't apply to, they are basically told by women to "work on themselves", which basically means to grind and make tons of money, so when women are ready to settle down (usually by their late 20s to early 30s), they have a nice retirement plan to look forward to. Women will use the fact that this group of men are sexually/romantically inexperience, as well as, desperate to reel them into commitment. Sex starts off enthusiastic to hook the man in to the relationship. Women are also on their best behavior and guys are lead to believe that this will be the baseline more or less.

Eventually, when an average man marries a woman, another layer of security is put in place that basically ensures the man pays a hefty price if he ever leaves the woman. This is usually in the form of spousal support an/or child support. Thus, women no longer need to have sex with you, since she has you shackled to a contract that says you provide for her in or out of the relationship. Sex is used as a reward for good behavior/out of duty and not because the wife generally wants to sleep with their husband. Sometimes, women will stop sleeping with their husband all together, despite his best efforts, and men feeling neglected often seek sexual relief else where.

Example, this sex therapist is able to make 500k/year by sleeping with men whose wives have stopped sleeping with them.

This discussion started a few days back when I went to meet a few of my friends. One of them commented - "you could be a fuckboy!" (Referring to another guy). The same was said to me once.

😂 This is just for fun, I'll describe the two guys (one of them being me). You decide whom you would consider to be a fuckboy and whom would you be interested in.

Guy1 features:

Is a professional singer and has a mesmerizing voice

Is humble but doesn't have much time for you as he's mostly busy with work

Is somewhat rich. Owns a car. Runs a business.

Has a lot of contacts with famous people (because of his job).

Is vegetarian. But doesn't mind if you are non vegetarian, as long as you don't force him to try non veg.

5'6" height. Healthy physique. Curly noodle-like hair.

Has a lot of friends but most of them are friends only for his fame. Very few genuine friends.

Likes to keep up with trends and fashion.

Does not drink/smoke for his voice, but enjoys parties and dancing and will sing for you.

You might get a free meals at top 5 star hotels as he has a lot of connections there.

Guy2 features:

5'8" height. Lean stature. Defined jawline.

Looks nerdy and is somewhat nerdy. Wears glasses.

Is humble and polite and very patient.

Sweet talker and will take out time for you if he's interested.

Has a mediocre job. No assets.

Very popular among his peers for his nature and behaviour. Had a lot of friends male/female.

Not a vegetarian.

Has a bland fashion sense. Wears overfit clothes and doesn't keep up with trends.

People tend to trust him very easily. Has the "innocent trustworthy guy" face

Does not drink or smoke or enjoy dance parties.

Which one seems interesting to you? Whom would you be interested to date? One of them is me (and I think it's obvious which one)