Why do a lot of girls love when a guy doesn’t give into her all the time?

[Finchie40]

I know most girls love to be submissive to their men , and she loves a guy she can look up to. With my experiences with girls , most girls love when I don’t really tolerate their shit and pretty much make it clear to her that I am perfectly fine without her in my life , I honestly hate being this way towards a girl that I want by my side but it seems like I have to be this way to keep her by my side and to get her to spread her legs for me , . I know most girls’ love the game of chase , but why does she love getting me upset and being an asshole toward her to turn her on?

[Anonymous]

I'll give you the same advice I'd give ANY man. Don't try to understand definitively why a woman dies ANYTHING. It's an exercise in futility. Your brain does not work like hers and never will. So just know what you're willing to tolerate, where you're boundaries are. I agree halfway with @NotTacocaT6969, it could be daddy issues. But I will say ALL WOMEN have certain level of crazy in them. So all women you're going to deal with a little bit of this to one degree or more. But the psychologically healthy women know they're a bit crazy and do thier best to mange/curb it. The non healthy one blames you for it. You're the cause of every crazy thought in her head.😆

[Finchie40]

Yea most girls ‘ I been with were all crazy , some worst Then others for sure

[NotTacocaT6969]

The common name for this mental illness is “daddy issues.”


Lack of a father figure during childhood causes a psychosexual response to fatherly qualities in adulthood.

[Finchie40]

Yea I been with some girls that didn’t have a father in their life that were raised by a single mother , and they were all selfish and crazy , Kind of like being on a relationship with Dr Jekyll Mr Hyde , they would be loving and caring and sweet and Then all of a sudden they change into this demon and started
Treating me like shit out of nowhere ,
It was back and fourth nonsense , I think that’s the reason I am the way I am now , I am just over drama when it comes
To girls’ hormones that are all over
The place , I just learned not to tolerate their craziness and selfishness anymore , when I was younger dating crazy girls that argued with me , I would be like no baby , I love you why are you acting this way? To realize how much of an idiot I was sounding , by kissing their ass. I no longer kiss their ass when I clearly know I did nothing wrong

[Samvixen]

👀 because we want you to have a backbone. Yes I love a guy who is a sucker for me me but it’s totally different I’m not having any balls and being a pushover. And it’s a very fine line. I want to be spoiled not feel like I’m bullying someone 🥰

[Finchie40]

Why do you like bullying someone you claim to love?