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I might answer this question myself. Of course not all of them are gold diggers. I have seen one category of them working and or studying steadily, another category where they have relocated for work outside of Russia, another category where they drive cars like Mercedes, another category where they paid for the meal for both of them, another category where they marry the wrong Guys, another category where they married a low wage earner, another very major category where they ignore men or dont want any relationships and the list goes on and on. So this renders my question pretty much pointless.

However i keep getting told how these Russian girls sit back and do nothing in dating and expect us to do everything, invest in them even if they dont return anything, pay for them and the dating instructions in Russia go almost as closely as possible to invade their space, just short of r a p i n g them. I personally get gold digger vibes from that.

Some of them even told me (perhaps as a joke but i can't tell) about migrants from Europe or America coming to Russia and depart later away from there having married one of the Russian women so these women would gain citizenship or a green card and a ticket out of Russia, basically any legal type of permit into the country where those migrants came from and take her there too. This has happened before and its not so uncommon.

This scared me because i can not know whether its for the citizenship they are in for or the real deal. I almost never had a relationship with a Russian girl but right now i am on the safe side since i am not in Russia anymore. No need to dig for a citizenship and a passport where i am.

I'm a nonsmoker, sober and basically pure due to my medication with depakote. The problem here in Los Angeles, or Pasadena, is that MANY of the "HOT" chicks here are potheads and all and some are even drug addicts/alcoholics, and I don't want to have to say "no" to a hot girl offering weed to me, only to be forced to break up with her since she's the type of girl to gossip and dress really provocatively

Or at least I was around those kind of girls at Target where I used to work

Came across this woman while looking at one of Kevin Samuel's video. Listed below was her comment for the video.

"I have a high value man and I just listen and do everything I can for him. He takes care of me and my daughters better than their father ever did. I am 37 and he helps me with everything so I will do all in my power to show my appreciation. I never called in to Kevin's show to ask any questions. I grew up with my man and him taking in me and my children was a blessing."

My initial thinking was this.

If you grew up with the man who is now your husband and knew him since childhood, why is it you ended up having kids with another man instead of just marrying this guy and having his biological children.

So I asked her this and her reply back to me was this.

"because I wasn't around him daily. We lived in two different cities that were close but still far enough to only see him summers at the Boys and Girls Club we attended. He wasn't the only guy in the city (lol). I also grew up with My Ex Husband (my daughters father). We're all the same age. I was able to spend more time with my daughters father because he was more assertive and went after me.

My husband now was a bit more shy and was also dating someone else. He wasn't my type He was just a nice friend. His relationship didn't work and my marriage ended. We remained friends and hung out on dates. He was always a gentlemen. One day we had too many drinks and now we've been married 7 years. He said he always knew I was supposed to be his wife. We still to this day are friends first."

Now let's say you were this guy in this exact situation with a 37 year old woman with a little girl that is not biologically yours. Your wife appreciates and loves you but you still have to see her ex-husband from time to time when he comes to visit the kids. Would you be ok being in a relationship like this?