Let me explain my experience being attractive and for reference I haven’t always been really attractive but I’ve always been quite a bit above average looking. I’m 6ft tall have 10 visible abs, pretty good facial features, and I know how to dress well. If I were to walk up to 100 women and try to get a date here’s the results I’d get. AT LEAST half would straight up just not want to talk to me maybe 2/3rds. The rest would talk with me and probably even flirt depends on the context. Like if it’s a bar and they’ve been drinking they’ll be flirty but at school maybe not so much. Now I talk with them a bit and the convo ends and I get their Instagram. Now if I go and ask this 1/3-1/2 of women out on a date a few days later 90-99% of them will not go for it. They will play hard to get for months into the future. Now I really just don’t have time to waste like that and if u don’t follow their Instagram story and posts the be like offended and not want to go on a date. So unless I am willing to potentially waste a MASSIVE amount of time and effort I’m not getting a date out of 90-99% of women. And let me just say too that the women who do go on a date with me and don’t play games are always the less attractive ones that I wouldn’t even consider in the first place. It really is like unless I’m willing to potentially waste hours of my time on someone I just met and hardly know women will not be willing to go on a date with me. And also it’s not like if ur an attractive guy u can get away with ok social skills. Sure u might be able to get away with slightly more but not nearly as much more as most guys seem to think. I don’t have hours of time to waste on 99% of women who probably won’t even ever end up meeting up with me. Like I have school I have work I have other stuff in my life I just don’t have time for this type of nonsense. The ONLY thing that has ever worked for me. Has been approaching LOTS of women. Women make dating impossible doesn’t matter what u look like.
Being physically attractive as a guy isn’t really that helpful, I thought it would be life changing but it just makes u hate women true or false?
