Being physically attractive as a guy isn’t really that helpful, I thought it would be life changing but it just makes u hate women true or false?

[Intothevoid666]

Let me explain my experience being attractive and for reference I haven’t always been really attractive but I’ve always been quite a bit above average looking. I’m 6ft tall have 10 visible abs, pretty good facial features, and I know how to dress well. If I were to walk up to 100 women and try to get a date here’s the results I’d get. AT LEAST half would straight up just not want to talk to me maybe 2/3rds. The rest would talk with me and probably even flirt depends on the context. Like if it’s a bar and they’ve been drinking they’ll be flirty but at school maybe not so much. Now I talk with them a bit and the convo ends and I get their Instagram. Now if I go and ask this 1/3-1/2 of women out on a date a few days later 90-99% of them will not go for it. They will play hard to get for months into the future. Now I really just don’t have time to waste like that and if u don’t follow their Instagram story and posts the be like offended and not want to go on a date. So unless I am willing to potentially waste a MASSIVE amount of time and effort I’m not getting a date out of 90-99% of women. And let me just say too that the women who do go on a date with me and don’t play games are always the less attractive ones that I wouldn’t even consider in the first place. It really is like unless I’m willing to potentially waste hours of my time on someone I just met and hardly know women will not be willing to go on a date with me. And also it’s not like if ur an attractive guy u can get away with ok social skills. Sure u might be able to get away with slightly more but not nearly as much more as most guys seem to think. I don’t have hours of time to waste on 99% of women who probably won’t even ever end up meeting up with me. Like I have school I have work I have other stuff in my life I just don’t have time for this type of nonsense. The ONLY thing that has ever worked for me. Has been approaching LOTS of women. Women make dating impossible doesn’t matter what u look like.

[RolandCuthbert]

Dude, you are taking this way too seriously. Why do you think that just because you are good looking/physically attractive that entitles you to some puddingtang?

Maybe you have to step your game. Because there are plenty of ugly guys like me who get women.

Maybe you have to work on your social skills. And I don't even understand where you are coming from. If the goal is to simply nail women, what was the point?

[Intothevoid666]

Being a human being entitles me to basic respect which women don’t give men period… ur putting words in my mouth I never said thank u for ur rude bs tho

[Intothevoid666]

The goal is to get to know women in a timely manner and find one to date not have sex with. But women make that impossible with their behavior

[RolandCuthbert]

You don't want basic respect. You want a woman to pound it out with you. No one is putting words in your mouth. You sound like a guy who has psychological problems. You ask women out. 2/3s say no and somehow that is not giving you respect. Then the ones that do play hard to get.

You said these words. Own them.

I am just saying, you have issues with dating.

Fix them. You can't fix the vast majority of women.

[RolandCuthbert]

Yeah, I am quite sure you are just being disingenuous. Lots of women like putting guys in the friendzone. So if you just want to be a friend, there are truckloads who love that.

[Intothevoid666]

I don’t want friends I never said I did again putting words in my mouth I want to find someone to date and I don’t want my time wasted and either way u act as if these women will hang out with me and text me and stuff which they won’t so don’t even tell me they will be my friend.

[Intothevoid666]

Why would I lie on here? This is exactly my experience

[RolandCuthbert]

You don't seem to know what you want.

As for me, I wanted a beautiful special woman for a serious relationship. And that is what I have.

You need to figure out what you want. Because I sure as hell can't figure it out.

[Anonymous]

I stopped wasting my time worrying about women decades ago.. best thing I ever did. I get more hassle from other guys for not giving a crap about the women showing me interest. Too many simps kissing ass and other men chasing. Forget about them, focus on your life purpose, finances and peace of mind. Just imagine if most men did the same... everything would be different!

[Intothevoid666]

But then I’m giving up on ever having a relationship and I don't know life is pretty pointless to me without someone to share it with

[Opinion Owner]

Not necessarily because when you focus on your life purpose (not to be confused with career), finances and peace of mind, women find this very attractive. You could then decide to invite a woman along for the ride once they have shown the interest and proved themselves. Forgetting about them is the best way to build attraction. There is nothing more attractive to a woman than a man that knows his life purpose, loves his life and knows where he's going. Most guys that chase women do not chase their purpose...

Although I opted to no longer participate in any of that, I've lost count of the amount of women that show obvious interest. I was approached a few weeks back too.

[Intothevoid666]

Nah I’ll just buy prostitutes or make porn or something at that point. If I have to do that to get a girl to like me I don’t want it

[Opinion Owner]

You're not doing that to get the girl, you're doing that for yourself. Female attraction is just a byproduct. I'm not interested in dating or relationships but I do all of that and notice the increase in attraction hence my comment. But you always do it for yourself and your life, not the girl.

Every man should be doing that for themselves and their life.

But ultimately women do not love you, they only love what ever you provide...

[Dinklex3]

So... your upset that the women your attracted to won't date you?
Is that your issue?

[Intothevoid666]

No I’m mad at the endless games and expecting me to chase them and if I don’t apparantly I don’t actually like them that much.