Is being a physically attractive guy actually that helpful in dating, my personal experience says no but I’m curious why u guys think?

[Intothevoid666]

Yes physically attractive men can potentially get a lot more female attention and flirt with a lot more women. But actually having sex with these women? It hasn’t been that helpful in my experience. Every girl just plays hard to get cuz they think u just want to fuck them and if that’s not bad enough they will literally start fucking some other dude after you’ve showed clear interest in them and for some reason still expect u to be interested in dating them. I couldn’t count on all my hands and feet the amount of times this has happened. Sure getting hookups is easier but it’s not like the girls I've hooked up with are anywhere near the girls I’d consider dating, they’re generally average at best. Overall I think being above average looking gets the best results but being particularly attractive looking can actually be a detriment to getting women. Thoughts? Are my social skills just that awful or is there truth to this?

[Markie-mark]

The right/decent looks and a warm caring presence or a fun challenge-taking attitude, just to name a couple, really not one size fits all with women's personalities

[Fireguy17]

Just like pretty women, their personality is way more important than looks.
There are so many good looking people that are just horrible people on the inside.
Beauty fades, dumb is forever.

[EnglishEuropean]

Very much so.