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CLICK THE PIC TO ZOOM IN. Sooo, I was watching my show Power last night and my girl Raq’s outfit reminded me that I’ve been meaning to get more mocknecks, cold shoulders, squarenecks, shrugs, henleys, sheer tops, crop tops, and cut outs. I feel like I haven’t rocked that style since college but I’ve been getting my shape back and I kinda want to get back into this. Whatever shirt i get, it’ll likely be in black, white or gray. Plus I really want another “easy access” shirt because it definitely came in handy with the last boyfriend lol. Now I don't know if i’ll pair it with leather pants, regular jeans, ripped jeans, leather skirt, or a plaid skirt. But yep below is what I’m considering and sorry if you find the style trashy 🤣 #FeelFreeToList

I know a lot of athletes are generally highly attracted to people even more athletic and competitive than them. My daughter fangirls and crushes on girls stronger than her, and girls she beats fangirl over her. Her boyfriend likes her because she performs better than him in competitions.

Both men and women turn me on when they perform amazing feats of athleticism. In my experience, sporty women have always been in demand.

But, I saw a man state today that men aren't attracted to athletic women. So, I'm curious.

I'm 40, and recently broke up with my boyfriend (47) of 11 months. We had hundreds of days filled with highs, he is social, charming, has a lot of friends, loves going out, having fun. He was very sweet, romantic and caring during these times. There were red flags that I tried to rationalize- binge drinking multiple times a week, crippling debt from student loans and cc (>200K), no career motivation and health issues that started popping up (probably from drinking). We had 6-7 arguments over the last year, that I thought were heated but never out of control (and always under the influence of alcohol). The next day we'd both apologize and move on. I realized he'd get overwhelmed then, and sometimes even at the smallest disagreement or when I needed to vent (when both were sober). I showed concern about his health and debt and the stupid fights that happened while drinking. Asked him to cut back, but he was super defensive and in denial. Fast forward to the new year, we were going to move in together and he was going to propose. He suddenly started acting disinterested and cold and last week suddenly declares he doesn't want to move in together. I'm taken aback and ask why, and he brings up the fights and that it's too frequent. I ask if he's overwhelmed with all his issues, and he admits he is, but keeps blaming me for the fights. I say I'll work on being more understanding and only bring up stuff while we're both sober and in a calm way, but I can't change the past, only do better in the future. He's reluctant to accept my words and I finally ask in frustration if he wants to break up. He says he doesn't know what wants, but needs time on his own to think. Over the next 3 weeks, I don't hear from him and he ignores my call and texts, forcing me to text and email him an official breakup note. Rationally, I know he's not good for me in his current state, but my heart still loves him. I want to know if a man like this can change. Does he deserve a second chance?