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I’ve been chatting with this guy that I met online for 4 weeks now. We’d planned to meet a couple times but us being on holiday got in the way. When we finally decided on a day, I suggested to reschedule and he also said it works better since he’s working intensely over the weekend - he’s in investment banking.

I suggested a couple days if he’s free and he mentioned would work much better as he’ll be in working the office that weekend. I then jokingly told him to get out of the office if he has not already last Friday and have not heard back since. The chats were also enthusiastic right before this

our chats have been great for past 4 weeks and he’s been quite consistent w messaging except right now. He did mention crazy past 2 weeks where he’s almost living in the office but I have not heard from him for 5 days now.

I’d just move on if it’s someone I have exchanged a few messages for 1 week with but we have been chatting for 4 weeks w multiple exchanges a day but knowing how scarce his time is, I doubt he’d just be texting to fill the void. What would you assume in my case?

I’m alternating being he’s genuinely busy and he’s moved on for some reason - bear in mind we have never met

Should i cut my losses or extend an olive branch? I don’t want to seem crazy and text if he’s moved on

If you decide to give them a second chance even though they didn't even confess, is it only fair to cheat back?

If you had to find out through texts, someone else, overheard then over the phone or worse walk in on them with the other person but decide to forgive and stay, can cheating back be more understood? Even justified.

If that cheater is forgiven, is it fair to cheat back? If so they have to forgive (return the same favor) you too since they got forgiven right? Otherwise they would be hypocrites if they didn't forgive.