Do you believe there is some kind of karma when you rejected many people and then someone you really want rejects you?

[Anonymous]

When i was younger, in elementary school and high school, there was many girls who had a crush on me. Often i knew they like me and they knew that i knew it. I rejected directly only one, she was texting me often and once asked me out and i rejected it. But mostly it was like the girls knew that i knew they like me but i did nothing about it. Through mutual friends they were trying to get to me and the friends wanted me to at least talk to them and stuff. But i had no interest in any of those girls. I didn't know any od them personaly. I know that some of them were pretty hurt. At that time i didn't even imagine how it feels and how i hurt them when i ignored them and stuff. Like a year later there was a girl i really liked. She liked me too and we started talking. Then we kissed few times and went out but then she turned me down. It was the worst feeling ever. I never knew how this feels and honestly never thought it will happen to me. I am still not over her. Now i realized how it feels when you're ignored, when someone you like doesn't like you back. How it ruins your self esteem and confidence. I realized how those girls had to feel and i honestly feel sorry how i make them feel. It hurts so bad when someone you like doesn't give you attention, ignores you, talks to everyone but you. I was the one who rejected many times. Now when i was head over heels with this girl i was the one rejected. Do you think there is some karma that it happens to everyone when they had fair amount of rejecting people?

[Rei02]

Someone who harassed and forced me to be his girlfriend in the past tried to scare me with the karma in a passive aggressive comment via my mom (he put her on his side): he "hoped" I wasn't going to pass through the same thing he did when I rejected him. I felt it like a curse.

However, as time has gone by, I not only had non reciprocate feelings from guys I liked, but I still got non reciprocate feelings from others, although they weren't harrasers like that manipulative bastard.

Also I learnt that it is part of life, it is not karma, it is just to be thankful for what you have in the present and even though the future doesn't reserve you someone in your life, it is the best because if someone is forced into a relationship, it will only bring unhappiness and become toxic for both in the end.

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah I had quite a few guys like me over the years but never the ones I wanted, so I'd always rejected them. I do sometimes think it is divine intervention or karma, especially because I couldn't get the guy I was absolutely in love with. I suppose if I changed I could get the ones I really want, but I am slowly losing interest in men and love in general because it always makes me more sad then I was without them in my life.

[Asker]

Same here

[mobiusforniner]

I do not concern myself with such matters. Does someone else’s suffering validate yourself? Do you feel indebted by having rejected another person? Either way, it’s living in a prison and no amount of karma is going to release those bonds to freedom until you make the choice to change, better yourself and move on. I’ve rejected and been rejected. I feel it better to be self authentic, always.

[kylee2437]

I think two different sides of you show when it’s one or the other. You probably come off more confident when it’s someone you don’t really like, vs when you do like someone you show difference

[Nikki1989]

There is no such thing as karma.

[Agape93]

Nope karma doesn't exist