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Ok so me and my ex had been dating for 7 months when we broke up. I am currently 7 months pregnant and we've been broken up for a month now. He woke up one day acting completely different and distant. I asked him what was wrong but he said he was just stressed. He started going out drinking and being with his family more. I finally understood that he had probably fallen out of love with me. I don't know why but he did, maybe another girl, family issues, etc. He told me that I make him unhappy and that we were better off without each other. We were together on and off for 3 years and had planned on getting married and having a baby. He picked a ring out and starting using pills to make his sperm count higher. He said he wanted to be in our daughters life no matter what. So he wants the child but the mother. I feel like an incubator. This wasn't unplanned and he seemed so happy when I told him. Then one after we broke up, he turned around and said he doesn't think y the baby is his. I NEVER cheated so this hurt very much. We lived together but he's moving out, putting his stuff in storage, and staying with his sister... isn't that a little much? He blames me for our breakup saying I stopped loving him, I changed, I started hating him, I never listened to his problems etc. I was never told about these issues at the time and if so I'm pregnant and my mind is constantly on the baby and work. I just wanted my pregnancy to be one of the happiest times in my life and to share it with the one i started it with. Now it's full of stress and heartbreak. I just don't understand what I did so wrong to have the man i was building a future with leave me...

My friends and I have encountered lots of guys

Guys that break up with you without saying anything
Guys that lead you on and deny it
Guys who cheat
Guys who tell all their friends on the football team what you do together in private
Guys who secretly record sex and show people
Guys who use girls for sex and then dump them
Guys that lie control and manipulate
Etc. If I ever did any of these things I would never have a peace of mind. I would feel guilty and write or tell that person who I hurt I am truly sorry. I know thats one of the main reasons why I feel animosity towardy exs. They never apologized for hurting me so much, they never acknowledged their role in my hurt. Because it took me 6 months to get over my first heartbreak and I felt like it would destroy me. It didn't but why can't guys admit and apologize for their roles in a girl's nightmares, a girl's tears, a girl's shame (of being used or exposed) a girl's change of eating habits because she's so depressed, or the way a girl will probably never love that hard again because of what you've done. Seriously? Guys dont feel guilty AT ALL? I can't imagine that someone could be this cold and without feelings.