Search Results: should we be friends

Is it fair to be upset if your long term partner/spouse doesn't want to move with you for work?

Let's say you've just gotten your ultimate dream job but you find out you are going to have to move as part of the deal. You tell your partner, and they don't want to move. They support you, but their family, their...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What can I do in this situation with my friend?

Hello so I have a friend who is pretty new and we are just getting to know each other. And after some nice talking , and her seem interested in friendship. She would one day act very dry. And when I asked what happend...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is a friendship still possible or is this not recoverable?

So to cram down as much info into a short sentence; When we met there was feelings but didn't go into dating, introduced her into my friend group shortly after, I still held onto feelings which complicated our friendship,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can I fix it / or leave it alone?

So I hung out up with a friend that I really hang out with every now and then for a birthday outing. Last minute, they wanted to meet up at their place. I ended up coming out of work a little bit late so I ended up...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How vulnerable should I make myself in a situation where I really want this to work when it's geographically inconvenient?

I'm in NJ, she's just outside of DC in VA. Her schedule is pretty busy coming up, and she says it may be too much for her to go up to NJ on a weekend (she has friends not THAT far from me)... I'm not tied down where I am...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I tell my abusive ex I am sorry for hurting him when getting a divorce?

We were together for six years. He was very controlling from the start, but I was so certain it would pass and he would accept me for who I am eventually. If I did everything as he said, we had peace at home, but the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My friend keeps going back to him even though he treats her awfully, should we stop giving her advice and let her do her own thing?

My friend has had a pretty consistant casual relationship with this guy, right at the start it was going well, however a few months in she noticed that when she would be at the pub he worked at he would ignore her...

Anonymous

(30-35)

This is my friends cat. Does it look too skinny? Should I say something, or mind my own?

Hotzone417

Xper 7 Age: 32

Response taking longer and longer?

So i met a girl through friends almost 2 months ago we started going on dates we had fun. She would tell me after all the dates she had fun. A week ago i asked how she felt a out us she said she felt good about us. Then...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Genuinely, my boyfriend is my best friend. Is this what they mean by 'the dream'? Or should I expect a plot twist?

I’m 30s and have struggled to connect with people my entire life. I had a few close friends in my twenties but after a few messy breakups we lost touch and I drifted away. These days my boyfriend is my only real friend...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I have payed her back?

My friend and I had plans to go to an event, and she bought the tickets. She offered to pay for half of mine since I told her I really couldn’t afford it, and although I wanted to go, shouldn’t. I agreed to pay her half....

The_Kroakie_Frog

Xper 1 Age: 40

What should I do if my girlfriend says she’s pregnant but I’m sterile?

After college, I had an accident that left me sterile that even my family didn't know about. I've always been okay with not having children, so I moved on and focused on my career. After my master's degree, I found a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do coupled people ever subconsciously take their single friends time for granted?

As a single person, when it comes to making plans and what not, plans couples have together are unbreakable and I should be planning around them. I'm told on this site that people should be treating their friends and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should special needs people only date each other and give up on dating non disabled people?

Okay guys. Im autistic. I’m just going to be straight up honest with you guys. I don’t think I will EVER find the man of my dreams. Let’s face it, most men that I want and like never like me back. I’ve only had two...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Two females who are friends both like me, what should I do?

They've both been flirting with me, they've also kinda been at odds with each other. The other day, they were debating other which one I'd rather hang out with while grabbing my arm, it was awkward being in the middle of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why guy would call himself as brother?

Soo.. we are kinda in a situationship. He admit we are like a mix of friends and lover. Story cut short, we haven't met and talk for awhile (i never initiate so does he) then he call, we talking, then he say why i didn't...

Anonymous

(18-24)