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Search Results: turn offs for a guy
Guys, I'm a 27F virgin, how should I tell the guy (27M) I'm talking to? Should I lie instead?
Long story short: I missed out on the high school / college dating experience (was kinda nerdy and didn't grow into my looks until my early 20s) and tried dating in my mid 20s but stopped pretty soon because of how...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why is he suddenly obsessed with rings?
I may be reading too much into this. My boyfriend has never been a big jewelry guy. Never seen him wear any jewelry in all the time we've been together. Recently he's been obsessed with rings. I usually wear a gem stone...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, What is the biggest turn off in a woman?
What can make even the hottest woman unattractive?
abbyjgriffin98
Xper 6 Age: 27 What was he thinking while looking at me?
I have a crush on this guy and during the lecture break at university, i was sitting at my desk, while he was standing down there near with his friends. I always observe him a bit during lecture and i thought that...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do guys think differently of girls who cover up?
When I do RDLS or bend down at the gym I always cover up my back with a hoodie and tie it around my waist. Would you be turned off by a girl who does that or think differently of her honestly?
Anonymous
(25-29) Did I just told him that I have a crush on him?
I have a crush on this guy and during the lecture break, i was sitting at my desk, while he was standing down there with his friends. I thought that would be the perfect moment to oberseve him, since I could see him so...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do girls like intelligent guys?
I'm kind of a nerd when it comes to a lot of things. I like to read and enjoy crossword puzzles, along with other word puzzles, I like trivia shows like Jeopardy, and I love writing, mostly novels, and a few short story...
What could he think in that situation (rather positive or negative)?
I have a crush on this guy and during the lecture break, i was sitting at my desk, while he was standing down there with his friends. I thought that would be the perfect moment to oberseve him, since I could see him so...
Anonymous
(25-29) No guys exclusively like me, they’re always pursuing another girls my actively. The only times, I wasn’t into one and the other barely liked me?
For example a guy could be dming me and I’ll talk to my friends and he’s also dming her but instead of for me like once a week maybe like everyday, and she’ll barley even respond yet he’ll keep pursuing her even without...
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(30-35) My girlfriend was raped. What should I do?
To save the details last Sunday my girlfriend was threatened to go into a car by a stalker (history there too) because her father was threatened at gunpoint unknown to him and she was terrified. She was raped and never...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why did he observe me the whole time?
I have a crush on this guy and during the lecture break at university, i was sitting at my desk, while he was standing down there near the podest with his friends. I always observe him a bit during lecture and i thought...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do guys secretly sleep with stuffed animals?
And girls, would you get turned off by it and break up with the guy?
Anonymous
(36-45) 
Is this a sign he never found me attractive?
He slept with me for 7 years. We were on and off. Together more than not. But if he can go out he normally does. He always shows physical signs of being turned on and doesn’t last very long at all. But the fact he...
Anonymous
(25-29) I’m lost and confused not sure if this married guy at work is just a friendly guy who might come off as a flirt not intentionally but I may be wrong?
Either way he is 29 and I am 25, he has been married for about 6-7 years and has two twin girls and I’ve seen his wife on Facebook she’s beautiful with a nice body, so why I’m asking is bc the first day he started working...
Anonymous
(18-24) Should I move on or give him time?
The guy I’m dating and I had an argument and it turned him off so much that he wants to break things off & just be friends. I apologize and promised to change my behavior, then told him I don't want friends. He then said...
Anonymous
(30-35) How to level up for a successful man?
I am a 29-year-old attorney who is just starting out in her career. I am financially independent but I’m in no way financially secure yet. I recently met a guy who seems to have it ALL. He’s tall, kind, handsome, great...
Anonymous
(30-35) Shy Girls, How to subtly tell a shy girl I like her?
Long story short, this girl I know, but don’t talk to much was acting strange around me a month ago when we saw each other in person at a public event. She kept taking glances and would look away when I caught her. She...
Unknownsh3
Xper 2 Age: 28 Should a woman ever ask a guy, WHAT ARE WE. Or does the pair just know?
I’ve never been in a relationship. So I was wondering if it even is a good idea to ask a guy this question. If the relationship is going good. If you both feel that you can trust eachother for life. Is there even a point...
Anonymous
(25-29) 
Why do some men flex their money so much at women?
So last night around 10pm I was at this pizza place getting some food. As I’m waiting for my food this older guy approached me saying I was pretty and was basically trying to get to know me. We talked for a few min in the...
KayDxx
Xper 2 Age: 28 