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When I know for sure a guy is being a true douchebag to a woman I will call him out. I’ve given women on GAG advice on how to handle these situations after I get the full story & details of what happened.

Not only is it wrong for a man to abuse women but it makes the rest of men look bad. We are already getting judged as a whole in modern society. The last thing I want is more examples modern feminists can use to disparage us.

But I do not call out other men just to “impress women” especially when I know the guy isn’t bad but maybe just socially awkward or (harmlessly) weird.

But there are a lot of “modern guys” who do that bs nowadays and it’s disgusting They will throw other men under the bus when they know it’s unfair but their goal is to impress women. Sadly it often works for them.

I have met a handful of awesome women who will call out female bullshit when they see it. I do not think they are doing it to impress men either.

However I really do not see this often enough. On one end women know that men prefer to fight their own battles. However there are some battles a man just can’t win when they are dealing with shithead females. For example there is little a man can do to fight back at being unfairly labeled “a creep”. But another woman can effectively call out a cunt female for doing that much better than any other man can when she knows what’s going on.

However I rarely if ever see feminists calling out other women who:

• freeload and mooch off men
• use their bodies to make money (onlyfans).
• physically assault men and cry victim when a man hits her back.
• file (proven) false abuse/sexual assault allegations. Feminists never called out Amber Herd.
• Use their gender to get job promotions yet underperform at their job.

It just seems women often give bad women “a pass” more often than men do. Why? Men don’t give other men a pass to act like a douche bag just because the man has “feelings”. Men judge other men on their actions not feelings.

Just to note that not giving someone attention when you never been romantically involved with them to begin with isn’t “mistreating” them. Some people feel that way but I don’t.

But I do feel mistreated when women are rude, freeloading, bitchy for no legit reason, gossiping negatively about me despite me never doing wrong to them to begin with.

I don’t do this to women I don’t find attractive unless they antagonize me first. I’m usually polite and friendly to them just out of general principle. And even if I know they are interested when I’m not I don’t automatically get “creeped” out about it (as long as they don’t do anything inappropriate). The way I look at it is attraction is not a choice but RESPECT is.

But I truly believe that women are generally far more disrespectful to men then vice versa when they don’t find them attractive regardless how the guy acts. Sure aggressive and rude creeps deserve to be shut out. But women will be rude if the guy they don’t like is even in their presence.

On the night after the first date, I messaged on dating app “Thank you for a great evening and hope you get home safe. I enjoyed our drinks. 🙂 Would you be up for meeting again?”

She replied the next night “Hello (name)! Yeah got home safe thanks, had a lovely eve :) yeah meeting up again would be cool :)”

I replied the next night “Glad you had a lovely eve and got home safe. 🙂 Cool, I was thinking we could go to South Bank Christmas Market. Might find a mulled wine instead of gin this time 😂. I can do most evenings & weekend next week except Friday and Thursday. Or the week after, I’m free other than (dates) when I’m in away. Let me know what works best for you. :) Did you get your glasto tickets by the way?

No response so after 2 days I messaged on WhatsApp “Hey (name), it’s (name) from Hinge. 🙂 Realised the last 2 digits of your number were the wrong way around. That’s why it didn’t send before. 😂”

She responded the next night”loool oh god were they? How much wine did I have? 😂Well done for figuring it out”

I then responded “Are you sure you’re not an alcoholic? 😂 Tbf, I lost count after the gin - apparently it’s a big thing at markets this year. 😂 Are you still keen on doing it again? 😂 I can do Saturday or Wednesday.”

No response a week later.