Just to note that not giving someone attention when you never been romantically involved with them to begin with isn’t “mistreating” them. Some people feel that way but I don’t.
But I do feel mistreated when women are rude, freeloading, bitchy for no legit reason, gossiping negatively about me despite me never doing wrong to them to begin with.
I don’t do this to women I don’t find attractive unless they antagonize me first. I’m usually polite and friendly to them just out of general principle. And even if I know they are interested when I’m not I don’t automatically get “creeped” out about it (as long as they don’t do anything inappropriate). The way I look at it is attraction is not a choice but RESPECT is.
But I truly believe that women are generally far more disrespectful to men then vice versa when they don’t find them attractive regardless how the guy acts. Sure aggressive and rude creeps deserve to be shut out. But women will be rude if the guy they don’t like is even in their presence.
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Overall I think men are more likely than women to mistreat people they don’t find attractive, however anyone who actually does that regardless of gender is in the wrong. I am just basing on personal experience the women I know tend to be nice to men whether they are ugly or not, overall, where with men it has been more hit and miss.
abusers are likely to mistreat whomever they can get in the line of fire, but if they are sexually frustrated on top of their other disorders, they are of course going to mistreat women they are attracted to