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https://www.maxim.com/maxim-man/men-who-have-girlfriends-are-hotter-2018-1/

So after reading a few articles like this one apparently women find taken men more attractive because "When a man is chosen as potential partner by someone, it tends to mean he is “higher quality” than all the other dudes who are single. Clearly, he has some endearing qualities that appealed to his girlfriend, which makes other women around take notice and want to be with him as well."

This article quotes from a study: https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-018-19770-8 which finds that men who have girlfriends receive something called an “attractiveness boost” and are suddenly perceived as hotter than they’d normally be.

“Women in our study found men’s faces more attractive if other women had given that face high ratings. But the same goes for pictures of abstract artworks... Women appear to copy the mate preferences of other women, but this might simply be because humans have a general tendency to be influenced by the opinions of others.”

So in any case, girls have you found taken men more attractive than single men? And guys have you noticed women noticing you more when you are taken?

I gotta say that in my last relationship i definitely noticed women being friendlier with me. i don't know if thats attraction or maybe im 'safer' to talk to now? i dunno man lol. human behavior is interesting and confusing at the same time.

Keep in mind im just talking about attraction. im not talking about if you'd actually do anything about the attraction such as cheating or something. JUST attraction.

I went to a large young adult event at my church tonight, and I didn't know anyone. I engaged in some conversation but I was incredibly anxious. I ended up leaving in the middle of the event.

I am normally a loner. I am 29 and never had a real girlfriend. I am very awkward and clumsy in social situations. My conversations usually don't last, and I am always having to think of what I am going to say next.

I am involved in a smaller Bible group consisting of several single men and I am feeling more comfortable in that setting now.

I don't know if I will ever find a woman. To make matters worse, I only want a woman without a romantic past, meaning no previous boyfriend or romantic bonds, especially from her youth.