Why do guys want respect from their woman yet when we tell them how to earn it they start whining and calling us gold diggers and shallow?

[Summeritmebdi]

Get muscles, and make money to support a family. It’s not that deep.

if you do those things I respect you. Unquestionably. Even if you’re not my man.

If you don’t then it’s gonna be an uphill battle in myself to try to convince myself I respect you. ,

[Lionman95]

I think the main reason that many guys are raised as boys to be the opposite so when they start dating they are faced with a problem since they have to realise that what they learned in school to be nice, loyal, helping and passive doesn´t help with dating girls and women. So they start to complain since they don´t know how to solve that situation and because you girls are around it´s you that gets to hear their complains.

[strateguy632]

firstly basic respect we must respect everone, "dignity" so no if conditions. second when you "demand money that is precisely a gold digger," who wants money. inseparable.

you chose to "link money to respect" and wrong about link and about respect.

[Billlewis]

That's an excellent point. I'm looking forward to the responses.

[Summeritmebdi]

Thanks Bill

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am. I just started following you and I'd be thrilled if you would follow me as well if it's alright.

[Flatmanlewis]

Well, muscles & money is a very short list so I’d have to say if that all a man needs to earn respect then that’s going to be a very attainable standard. I’d like to think that list would have a few more items on it to equate to actual respect.

[HippoDino]

I mean, if you are asking for a guy like that but can't get a guy like that. Maybe take a look in the mirror and improve yourself so a guy like that actually wants you.

[Twalli]

So until I marry you I won't spend money on you because you aren't my family so I shouldn't support you with the money for my family?

[jahaims]

Because those aren't respectable values.