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The pastor at my local church said this today. Whether you are spiritual or not it definitely rang true.

When I had people say and do nasty things to me in the past I (as anyone) usually judged the incident at surface value. Few exceptions would be if I already knew the person very well and knew they weren’t being themselves but were being negatively influenced by an outside circumstance.

However there have been other incidents where I tried to give the person the benefit of the doubt. But later got it confirmed they really are a POS and everything they said/did really did intention. When people refuse to apologize and/or gaslight then you know the truth about them. When that happens I cut them off and never look back. My self respect is more important is more than any friendship or relationship in that case.

But how patient are you with judging people?