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Do you think most people's romantic "love" to each other is based on superficial conditional things first (height, money, good looks in men, or hot body in women)?

Or is it that most people who end up in long term relationships are "truly meant for each other" and would've found each other, regardless of looks, height, social status, age, etc?

Notice I said MOST (60 to 90% of people), not all. Obviously, my answer is no. I'm physically unattractive and have literally nothing going for me in looks/physical, so I can confirm that "personality alone" isn't enough to make "love happen."

But that's just what I think. What do you think?

Inspired by this question here.

When women are in good positions in life and have the capability to get commitment from men, they always choose a really tall guy to be their husband/boyfriend. Hell, when we look at past marriage data, it was found that when women are the breadwinners and better educated than the men, they often picked a male who was very tall to be their spouse. While women who were financially dependent and not so great position in life were more than likely to give a man that was considered short (5'9 and under) a chance at a LTR.

Thus we see that women see intrinsic value in a male once he is tall and he does not need to compensate by bringing wealth and status to the table for her to consider him good enough. A male who is tall and loses his job will still be seen as having value and worth in a females eye while a male under 6'0 will be viewed as a liability and someone to replace if he does not find employment soon.