Search Results: guys look for in a girlfriend

Is there any way it could go back to as normal as possible, cause he's ghosting me?

I used to be very close friends with this guy. We used to date back in 7th grade when we were really young so now we didn't consider ourselves "exes". We used to go to the same school, but I moved schools. We still kept...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Lots and lots and lots of eye contact?

This guy friend and I always find ourselves staring deeply into each other eyes. Half the time we don't even speak, just eye contact and silent, just smiling. It's pretty intense when we have one on one conversation, even...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he gay or in to me?

I've been friends with this guy at work for a really long time. He's really nice and friendly towards me but recently he's been trying wayyy to hard with me. He used to have a girlfriend who was also my friend but she...

Puppystarfish23

Yoda Age: 28

Girlfriend seems a bit too busy with social media than to do stuff together sometimes... and usually about one person, advice?

My girlfriend seems busy on social media a lot to actually do stuff sometimes... and she says her Instagram posts come up randomly so unless she looks at something for a while it doesn't pop up. We went away for Christmas...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Don't you think my buddy is a genius?

I'm trying to get him to become a writer, because he could put Tom Clancy to shame. We only exchange true anecdotes, because truth is much stranger than fiction. He said that back when he was but a wee lad, he had the...

Gummy_Cluster

Xper 6 Age: 26

Is he saving me for later or just not interested?

I have this guy who I’ve known since ‘17. We started talking heavily in ‘18 but he distanced himself b/c he didn’t want a relationship. It hurt me to separate b/c we had a strong connection & could talk about our deepest,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, do y'all think that sometimes women become housewives or stay at home girlfriends just to be lazy and avoid work?

I looked at a couple of social media videos and some of these women want to get out of work because it's too hard to do and it should be a man doing it instead of a woman. Women wanted to be equal to men. Saying that they...

Anonymous

(18-24)

He wants me to be his girlfriend… just not right now?

I recently started seeing this guy, and from the start he’s said he’s looking for something serious. The last date we went on he started complaining about how “he was so conflicted” and when I asked him about why, he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Why is my ex married trainer sending me Instagram direct messages?

Ok. Just listen! I moved from nyc to a small town outside of the city ; and resumed my gym membership at a location close to my house. I hired this guy “Greg” for the spring and summer of 2022. I got busy with work. Told...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Boyfriends or girlfriends before age of 13 or puberty. Have you had one, did you consider them serious or just fun and games?

So yesterday I talked with a few friends about middleschool and something came up. So around that time, maybe 6-8th grade (I may be wrong there and it was even earlier) there was this thing going on, where basically half...

msmissydc

Guru Age: 30

Why would a guy not want to talk about his past relationships?

I’ve never heard anything much about my boyfriend past except his mom dying and him going to jail over his girlfriend. All we talk about is me and the men I’ve dealt with in the past. The only reason why he talked about...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I'm in a long distance relationship, but his girlfriend text me?

I have been seeing this guy on and off for about 2 years now. We always get hung up on the 5 hour distance between us, but recently things have been going well. He came down to visit last week and as far as I could tell,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is it hard for attractive guys to get a girlfriend. While average looking guys get girlfriend pretty quick. ?

Anonymous

(25-29)

If a guy knows I like him but he doesn’t like me back why is he still messaging/replying to me?

I worked with this guy and after a while of getting to know each other I admitted I liked him. He called me a few times pretending he didn't mean to, he would compliment me, he told his friends I would be a good...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, if a guy loves your hairstyle and he hugs and kisses you for it, will that get you addicted to your hairstyle?

As for me, if Natalie was my girlfriend/wife, I’d be kissing her her hair, head, and face and hugging her and be telling her: (I love you with long hair and leave it the way it is. You want more hugs and kisses and want...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Was I wrong for calling him out at looking at a girl to teach him a lesson on accusing me?

My boyfriend, now ex, would constantly accuse me of cheating subtly all the time. I told him that I don’t like those jokes because I believe he meant it. He told me he needs to see that he can trust me but I never have...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating not looking for something too serious?

There’s this guy who wanted me for a while then got into a relationship and after we started talking again and someone had told me his girlfriend was cheating on him and everyone knew except him. so we went on a date...

Jananj

Xper 4 Age: 42

Girls, are highly intelligent guys less interested in dating?

I am talking about exceptionally intelligent guys. I have had a crush on a guy for a few months now. We study at the same university and both are grad students but on different subjects. A few months back I first get to...

Anonymous

(25-29)