Guys, do y'all think that sometimes women become housewives or stay at home girlfriends just to be lazy and avoid work?

Question

I looked at a couple of social media videos and some of these women want to get out of work because it's too hard to do and it should be a man doing it instead of a woman. Women wanted to be equal to men. Saying that they can do the same work as a man, but when they're given the work that a man does, they regret their decision and want to stay at home and maintain the household. What do you guys think?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

It depends on the girl and her selfishness , A majority of girls’ are selfish and only really think what is best for her , but not all girls are like this they are just harder to find. Lol why it’s best to find a girl that wants to be your team partner over a girl that just wants you for your money. A girl that loves her man with her heart not his wallet She is the kind of girl that is going to do what she has to do to help provide for each other and understand that nothing in life is just givin to us , she is the type of girl that will stand by your side as long as you stand by hers , she is the kind of girl you should want to provide for and take care of and protect , If you have kids with her you should want her to be home taking care of the kids and the house but if money is tight she will step up and Get a job as well she will have stressful days just like you have stressful days but all in all she has your back like You should have hers. She will go through the obstacles of life with you , the ups and downs, as long as you do your fair share of shit around the house and help with the kids , If she is a selfish girl she is only going to do what is best for her , she is a user, she will latch on to a man that she feels can provide for her that she feels she can control and manipulate and get her way , she will give him sex and suck his dick just to get her way , those are the type of girls you need to stay away from they are whores , they are only with that guy because she can get what she wants from him , she truly doesn’t love him , she is just using him , the second things don’t go her way or he loses his job and money gets tight she spreads her legs for another guy that she feels can provide for her, Her current partner becomes an instant piece of shit to her, instead of having his back and supporting him , she attacks him and blames him for everything My advice Let the other guy have her , he just did you a favor. He took that whore away from you , She is not your problem anymore , and don’t take her back if she tries coming back to you , Most girls love shopping , if you meet a beautiful girl that asks you to buy her things my word of advice is to kick her to the curb where she belongs , when a girl likes you for you she isn’t going to ask you for money , Don’t be tricked by her beauty , her beauty is her weapon that she uses to lure guys in to take care of her , she only cares about herself and what she can receive if she isn’t receiving she isn’t going to be giving she is going to be giving to someone else , keep that in mind don’t be played a fool , These type of girls will never experience true love because they are selfish people

JayParris · Accepted Answer

The psychological war waged against women has been so well-crafted and successful that it convinced women to fight it against themselves.

Just the implanted idea of working in the home for your family being tantamount to slavery, vs working for your boss being freedom and empowerment, is very telling.

To your point, my ex was a stay-home mom. Four months after having our oldest, she wanted to put her in day care. But she didn't want to get a job, even part-time, to help pay the cost. Incessantly complained about how hard it was to be a housewife, even with machines to handle the hard work for her. I had to do any major housework if I wanted a decently-maintained household, and was made to be the bad guy when I wasn't happy about it.

The marriage broke down because she didn't want to do ANY work, and I didn't want to do ALL of it. So now she's a single mom... with a full time job... and taking care of her own damn house and yard.

That's why I say that marriage is outdated. Since there are no gender roles anymore, and no sanctity of marriage (divorce is almost as easy as just breaking up), then we should all just stay single and take care of our own stuff. Let women be truly free and empowered without the burden of a husband being around.

SteveSmith1985 · Answer

Dude... have... you ever TRIED "housework"? That's... not "getting out of work". This... is really pretty obvious.

So, no... I don't think that there has ever been a "housewife" worthy of the title... who did it to get out of work. That shit is work. It's just nobody pays you for it.

This is a backward-ass idea (no offence)

Guy13 · Answer

Depends... my hoe thinks BJ are fun and very much likes her "workload"... We both work remotely as well. I love COVID !!!

Pegases · Answer

Sometimes, yes. But I think men in general do ourselves a disservice when we look down upon women that are housewives, because good women that are housewives will literally take care of you, and propell you towards your goals. Women that are in touch with their feminine essence are healers, and multipliers. They create the kind of home that you want to come home to, and the kind of home you never want to leave. Sure there are lazy women that you should avoid, but those women aren't hard to spot. Women worth keeping and making housewives, move differently, and have a different vibe altogether.

BeMuse · Answer

That's the general idea. I've had them openly confess that to me. If you ask them stuff like how do you like your job, they will often tell you they don't like their job, they wish they could quit... They just need to meet a man that will let them stay home.

AdithyaR · Answer

If you think being a stay at home partner is lazy and has no work, you're delusional.
It's basically 24/7 work unless you have a housekeeper. You have cooking, doing dishes, cleaning, laundry, taking care of kids if there are any.
Maintaining a house is not easy.

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

Yeah I seen this happen right in front of my eyes. Where I’m from a lot of women are known for this, except they’re worst cause they never actually live to their end of the bargain.

Instead of doing housewives chores they want to lay in the sofa all day watching soap operas

Keishio · Answer

I think of they can afford that lifestyle then go for it but a house wife doesn't just mean they sit around all day not having to work. Their job becomes looking after their husband. Keeping the home clean and tidy, making sure there's always food in, preparing all the meals for the family. Pretty much everything so the man can afford to work longer hours and not need to maintain the home as much

Anonymous · Answer

Unless she's home taking care of the kids that she gave him, there is no reason why any man should be taking care of her as if she's a toddler.

"stay at home girlfriend/wife" just sounds like a bum to me. To each their own, but I won't be spending the rest of my life with a bum.

RavVid · Answer

I think a lot of women get around to preferring a stay at home role.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes and to take our monnies too. Can't blame them for it though. Who doesn't like free money?

Danael31 · Answer

It depends of the situation of course but come on, for most people, focusing on housework can be seen as a job.

Nominal · Answer

No, and or Yes, but i dont think ones paycheck is enough for both. Except if u are millionaire.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Absolutely. Men are women's number one retirement plan.

Iron_Man · Answer

Maybe they’re more comfortable in that role

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

Yes, women can't handle 9-5 jobs

In_Trance · Answer

sometimes, yes

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