Why do some women want to be a housewife but contribute nothing?

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They wanna get their nails done and be pampered. But don’t wanna do the housework or want their hardworking man working his ass off to do some of it.

I know “oh poor me it’s so hard doing all these chores” well there is plenty of women who have a job and then come home and both spouses do the work.

Don’t get me wrong. Yes there is men who their wife also works and he wants his wife to do ALL the work. Yes there is men who play video games all day long and expect their woman to work and do most the housework. I just don’t understand their mindset.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I dont know about those women. I'd love to be a housewife. I'd make sure its clean, kids are taken care of and dinner is ready when my husband comes home.

I mean its a 2 way street. If she isn't doing her part he shouldn't do his part..

LazerBean · Accepted Answer

The same reason some men make their wife work, do all the house care, plus do all the child care. Bums come in all sizes and genders, it's just because they are entitled and lazy.

MzAsh · Answer

A lot of women are dipping out of the housewife role because they know that the return isn’t there, and statistics show that. However, that’s not an excuse for them to lay around and spend his money to go get their nails done. If you don’t want to cook and clean (I get it, neither do it), then at least have a job and pay a few bills. Personally I love having my own income and contributing financially.

Apple1996 · Answer

They care for the house. That's what they are contributing.

Finchie40 · Answer

Cuz those women think they were put on this Earth to be catered to , that she deserves a man to provide and take care of her , if she doesn’t get her way she will latch on to another Sucker that she feels will treat her better and try to play a victim when really she is a selfish whore that only cares about herself , She is the kind of girl that uses sex as her tool to get her way , she focuses on status and seeks validation from other men to make herself feel better about herself , she doesn’t know how to be a team partner , She was raised by parent’s that spoiled her and told her she did no wrong that told her to find. a man that can take care of her and that makes good money. so she doesn’t have to work. So she is a spoiled selfish person that only looks at things her way Sadly a lot of girls’ have this mindset especially in today’s day and age , So to find a girl that actually wants to be a team player is hard to come by these days , I won’t waste my time with a girl that has no work ethic and thinks she doesn’t have to lift a finger cuz she is worried about breaking a nail , Kick her back to the streets where she belongs if she treats you like a walking ATM machine , I don’t care how good she is in bed cuz the second something bad happens to you or you lose your job she spreads her legs to another guy that she feels that can take care of her , she doesn’t love she only loves herself , Let the other guy have her , He did you a favor trust me

anonguy2000 · Answer

I think there are some women who want to stay home and take care of the kids and house and some that dont. I think its the best option for the kids to have the mom perform that role instead of a daycare and its a goal to strive for men and women. Both partners have to work together and want to help each other in that situation. The man can't go off and cheat with a coworker and the woman can't stay home and text with guy friends and say its because she's not getting attention. Simple rules but that life is totally achievable if both people agree

Alli39 · Answer

I mean you're talking more about a wannabe trophy wife than an actual housewife. And the reason is because they don't want to work and lack the empathy to understand how their inaction affects the people around them?

madhatters4 · Answer

someone women want to be "kept" and some partners are ok with or even want a kept partner. this is a scenario that is in the minority. it's just one of the many MANY relationship structures that exist

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

"But I have to cook every day?" Yeah same as if you were single. Would you like a reminder?

Anonymous · Answer

Marry a rich girl and not only will she not want to do any house work she may not want you doing it either and instead insist you hire various "professional".

Women can be lazy, and some women are disconnected from reality.

sheikalana · Answer

They probably don't know what being a housewife really means.

DextroShade · Answer

A man can't play video games all day and expect a woman to work and support him and most men know that. But there a lot of women who think they can just show up and look pretty and a man will retire them. While that is more likely than the first scenario most men of value will expect their woman to do something for him in addition to sex, such as cooking, cleaning, looking after his kids, or helping him out in some other way.

Anonymous · Answer

There are extremely few "housewives" who don't have children to care of, and all the stay at home mom's I know work their asses off.

Iron_Man · Answer

I guess they are a princess that deserves the world

Akam93 · Answer

I'm a housewife I never get pampered at all. I cook, clean, take care of my kids, make dinner almost every night, and do the laundry. And run the errands.

slatyb · Answer

There are freeloaders of both sexes.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably because thier mom took care of them growing up. So they just assumed that was going to continue into adulthood. Most women struggle with reality. It's generally why they're such poor decision makers.

jshm2 · Answer

It's usually part of the agreement, or they are stronger than the man and control him.

Anemone978 · Answer

All I can say is happy wife, happy life. If you don't make her happy it will reflect in her work, house and children. Other than that don't be with someone you can clearly see is lazy and entitled..

MissBoogus · Answer

Lazy I guess? I’m so grateful to be a housewife

elontesler3 · Answer

they want their cake and to eat it too because they seen it work for women on tv, celebs, and their friends

Billlewis · Answer

What's wrong with that?

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