Guys, Why do guys find me attractive?

[Anonymous]

I am a Christian (26 year old female) 5'4" petite and dress pretty conservatively, like 1900's type with a blouse and a petticoat and everything from the edwardian era and I don't wear makeup and I'm soft spoken and a little quirky, but for some reason I keep getting unwanted attention from men usually sexual attention and I don't know why. I dress conservatively, why does that bring me sexual attention? Wouldn’t a perverted or "showy" women attract a males attention? I asked my coworkers if I dressed as a nun would it deter men's attention, they said no. I am an old fashioned Midwestern like 1950s who wants to be a housewife and stay at home make my future husband dinner, have kids.

[Blackmoonsns]

You're still young and you're fertility years if you're physically built as you say you're most likely physically attractive and Men we're very drawn physically to women in a sexual way it's just how it is that's just nature so if you're getting unwanted sexual attention from random guys it's mostly dude that you're physically beautiful and you're still within your facility years so that's very attractive to any guy. If you want to keep mail interaction to a minimum try walking around or being in public with other women or have a brother or a male family member or friend with you that will stop men from hitting on you for the most part

[Pyrofox]

Guys love traditional gals. Guys in general want to be chivalrous. Its just that the vast majority of modern women now a days snear at us. So really guys only do nice things for women who don't just want traditional guys but are themselves traditional. Ya gotta go full circle.

[Asker]

I suppose so, but as an old fashioned female I don't expect men to be straight forward with their attraction... usually asking my number or my social. I guess I'm more expecting more gentlemen responses like having real conversations and actually wanting to get to know me not how far can they go😭 I am a complete virgin and it will stay that way until I get married, I have never even kissed a man either.

[Pyrofox]

Well... Nothing is stopping ya from breaking the first layer of the iceberg towards a relationship.

[Guy13]

This is not difficult. You are a refreshing change from a modern world that pushes liberality in everything. Everyone knows Modernity is broken and recognizes that life here has never been ideal, however, my Great/Grandparent's Time was better in these ways etc... We've all heard it before.

You represent the "Better Days". There is some purity in your presentation and perhaps person. That's the kind of thing that fills a room when the person enters. So yeah, whether Nun dressed or Knapsack, people are going to feel it and be attracted to it.

[MCheetah]

Some men want a conservative traditional woman, and that's becoming more and more rare nowadays. You're also rather short, which some tall men might like, and very religious. Sounds like many Conservative men would love you. Don't worry; I'm not conservative though, and I prefer women who are 5'10"+.

[Asker]

I actually do wear something very similar to this.

[Summeroflove]

You’re attractive because you’re a Christian. You have morals. You’re a good person. So yeah that’s attractive for sure.


Perverts are also just perverts. They will perv after anyone. They have no standards or morals.


But you’ll probably find a really good man being a good woman

[CanadianLearner]

I love seeing women dressing modestly like this.

While your intent isn't to draw attention (like many woman's intentions are), your appearance will draw some men to you.

Take it as a blessing.

You'll probably disproportionately attract conservative men, which is what you seem to be going for.

[20yearsolder]

Some guys enjoy that look, you could wear a nuns outfit and somebody's going to be attracted to it. To me it means you have natural beauty

[Berethor]

Many guys have a fetish for petite girls, and even if you dress modestly it don't change that.

[RavVid]

Oh you wear petticoats - my dream woman - plus you want to cook! Marry me!

[Jamie05rhs]

Unfortunately, it seems that ALL women get unwanted sexual attention from men. No one is immune.

The difference is that someone like you will actually attract good men as well. While someone who dresses like a skank will not.

[convo_king89]

You sound like Amy farowh from big bang theory. Some guys like the shy modest girls so can see if they have a sexy personality or take it as a challenge I guess

[Stevefiveo]

That is the kind of girl that a lot of guys would like to marry. So guys just don't know the art of flirting with out being pervy.