It has to be a give and take. Even if you are wanting something "traditional" (by the way I AM a Christian and I don't follow just after the traditions of man) but what you want is what you want and nothing wrong with that.
But the problem is so many BOTH men and women pursue one sided relationships when they have to put all the effort in and get little to nothing in return. This makes ZERO sense to me.
There are plenty of women or men out there who will show interest in you and give you all they have. Why do you court a woman who gives you nothing? I am not talking about sex either this is for marriage in my opinion.
But especially women who think that both men and women should work but in relationships the man should still give everything. Why are you giving more then you get? What are you getting out of it?
Then there are women out there who want to stay home all day while her man works his ass off but she still thinks he should be doing housework... What are you getting out of that? A nagging wife who does not have to do anything? Nothing wrong with a housewife or stay at home mom or even a stay at home dad if that is what you want.
But my gosh they most of the time do almost ALL the work and sometimes the man might help sometimes but.
There are women who do this too. Why are you with a man whose unemployed and plays video games all day and you have to work AND do all the house work. What are you getting out of this?
I know some people really like someone but at some point... When is it not worth it. Especially if they aren't into to you and you waste your time on someone who does not want you to start with?
But the problem is so many BOTH men and women pursue one sided relationships when they have to put all the effort in and get little to nothing in return. This makes ZERO sense to me.
There are plenty of women or men out there who will show interest in you and give you all they have. Why do you court a woman who gives you nothing? I am not talking about sex either this is for marriage in my opinion.
But especially women who think that both men and women should work but in relationships the man should still give everything. Why are you giving more then you get? What are you getting out of it?
Then there are women out there who want to stay home all day while her man works his ass off but she still thinks he should be doing housework... What are you getting out of that? A nagging wife who does not have to do anything? Nothing wrong with a housewife or stay at home mom or even a stay at home dad if that is what you want.
But my gosh they most of the time do almost ALL the work and sometimes the man might help sometimes but.
There are women who do this too. Why are you with a man whose unemployed and plays video games all day and you have to work AND do all the house work. What are you getting out of this?
I know some people really like someone but at some point... When is it not worth it. Especially if they aren't into to you and you waste your time on someone who does not want you to start with?
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