Why are SOME (and not all) stay at home moms one sided and don’t love their husbands?

[Anonymous]

Why do many stay at home moms think like this?

If you don’t fit this definition I’m NOT talking about you. But if you get defensive maybe you’re seeing something in yourself.

A lot of them (not all) are notorious victims. They have this fantasy in their head that it’s gonna be a easy ride. That they aren’t going to have to do any work while their husband works 70 plus hours a week to provide for a bum who wants to sit around watching TV.

She just wants to send her kids off to public school and sit around. When she finds out that it’s actual work being a housewife/stay at home mom. It’s poor poor pitiful me. Many times there is cheating either the husband is so miserable in his marriage he cheats, or he’s loyal and she’s bringing her boyfriends over. Instead of cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kids, etc.

I don’t think if someone’s married to a wife (or a husband for that matter) that stays home all day while you work. Should have to lift a finger around the house. Unless they enjoy cooking or something.

A marriage is EQUAL effort by both people. If you don’t see it that way. Then you don’t love your husband. You’re just using him. A lot of housewives don’t genuinely love their husbands. Because they come home from a long day of work to be nagged at. I don’t understand why men marry these types of women AT ALL

[Anonymous]

Nagging at husband who returns home after a 12 hour shift is the worst thing a wife can do

In our early 20s my husband used to work multiple jobs which also included physical labor and I'd do everything to make him feel appreciated and loved and let him have a great rest when he gets home...

He's my hero, now we have 2 kids and we're financially very good going

[Asker]

You’re a good woman. Yeah being a stay at home mom (or dad for that matter) isn’t easy. Nor should it be.

I just can’t stand women who play the victim. If they think joining the workforce again would be easier. I don’t get why they don’t do it. Especially the ones who send their kids to public school

[Asker]

Anonymous, it’s sad. A lot of these stay at home moms come on my posts. Get angry and defend their actions. Then report me to the moderators.

If a woman stays home I don’t think her husband should have to lift a finger around the house. Both people should work equally hard in different roles for it to work.

One sided relationships never end well. Not ever… and many cases a woman doenst want to work and has this fantasy of staying home doing nothing. When it isn’t what she thought it would be. Well

[strateguy632]

she want to do less work. she ignore that he WORKED at job so home is for resting.

[Asker]

Yes yes

[gorydetails]

I think this is a very rare occurrance.

[Asker]

It happen s

[gorydetails]

So does a person tripping over their dog, hitting their head and dying. “It happens” doesn’t mean shit.