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One of the harmful stereotypes is that all men are abusive and All fathers are tough it's harmful and dangerous because it sets up scenarios and stereotypes that deny the uniqueness of the situation and caps the complexity of human beings. Just because you have a father doesn't mean that they are tough doesn't mean they're abusive it doesn't mean they're out to get you. From what I learned this is what women's select out of their mates and this is why The Stereotype exist in most cases women pick men who are tough to the point of being abusive power hungry hurt you through their insecurities these are the type of men that women want and these are the type of men who normally become our fathers. On the other hand women are human as well they are responsible for just as much evil as men in fact The Stereotype that they are incapable of evil does more harm inside of relationships. Especially the variety of son and mother. I have experienced abuse at the hands of my mother the hands that we're supposed to care and feed for me abused me it would be one thing if it was obvious but it led to me being confused and not moving on in my life and making indecisive decisions all the things that make me a weaker man and all the things that women theme as worthless and weakness. She would have used me and try to identify it as tough love and say that I was weak I guess the Tipping Point was when I have to fight her boyfriend and then she called me a sissy when I brought it up. I'm working out the emotional problems and issues inside of me. Women's interests aside no one's going to help me do that; it's something I want to do. But I have to work a lot harder because normally men redeem that trauma points through their sex lives when it comes to mother problems. the question and poll I have for the guys is how many men have gone through parental abuse at the hands of their mother and what did you use to cope?

Not just through my own experiences but through many of other men's experiences I've noticed that in the grand scheme of things your personality doesn't make a difference in truly affecting a woman's decision yet it's something that's played with as well as it's put out there that if you're good or you do the right thing that they should treat you right the biggest flaw with this lie is that more women tell Mendes through mother-son relationships poisoning their minds and a lot of cases women see men who do the right thing as controlling or limiting or they're too weak to do what needs to be done. I however have come to a very simple conclusion the only reason that we are taught that personality matters or makes a difference is so that despite you not being top-tier or despite you not meeting the standards that most women go for is that you put money into the pool women are pretty much a lottery / Ponzi scheme and the only way it really works is if people are willing to put money into it. Yes women are making more money now however there are a lot of factors that largely show that chunks of that money comes from men as well as their interest fans only is a huge example. They're happy to say that women are making more money however they don't want to or feel it's coming from men who are interested in them.
My question is is do you believe that there is no Proving Ground and in reality everything in between is just a Ponzi scheme to get men/ people interested in women to spend more money.