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Me and my boyfriend go out to Denny's to eat often there is this female server who is attractive and cannot stop hitting on my boyfriend. The rudest part is she does this in front of me! I trust my boyfriend so I don't worry. My boyfriend says I'm overreacting (I'm not) but as a woman ik how we subtly flirt this was anything but subtle. She's super giggly with him and goes out her way to try to speak to him. She tells him a very corny confusing joke then when we paid for the meal he tells the male cashier " have a nice day my man" and she looks back at him like she was genuinely waiting for a "bye" with hearts eyes. Extremely disrespectful... What is up with you bitches that love taken men? I'm mean really girl? I feel summer girls see how he treats you and wants that as well little do they know the same way you get them is how you lose them. Only tipped her five they bitch was thirsty and my man is fairly attractive as well

I was an introvert since I was a child. I’m still trying to talk more often but I didn’t like to talk too much it’s just that I find it unnecessary to talk so much. It’s not easy for me to talk to people whom I don’t have a close relationship with. I had a hard time trusting too many people, most of the boys in high school were not boyfriend material. They talked about sleeping with as many girls as possible and they are not interested in getting into a relationship. When one of those jerks approached me and claimed he had feelings for me, I rejected him in a very harsh manner assuming he only want me is because he wants to sleep with me. I was right he wasn’t the type of guy who wants a serious relationship, it’s only the sex. That’s how he and his group of friends hated me for being ruthlessly harsh but that’s my personality. I can be vicious and heartless in my speech when I knew a guy want me because of sex and nothing else. I was still the same when I found out my ex used me for sex, in the end he hated me because I didn’t gave him a good time. Do I feel guilty for being harsh to my ex? Not in the slightest.

This isn't in reference to myself, just thinking about it in general from conversations I've seen between couples.

Lets say someone keeps saying they are not doing something anymore. Something they used to do but they stopped because they got into the relationship.

I don't have any particular thing in mind that is being hidden, just the concept of hiding and lying about it. Decided to throw something in here, cause it can be hard for people to imagine without an idea.

If something else fits you better, use it instead.

Lets say person A says they used to do onlyfans and sell content on snapchat. They no longer do.

They promise to their SO they no longer do that and give lots of reasons why. They have stated this many times in the past, nothing to be worried about.

Person B, the SO does at first trust without a doubt, but then starts to find little things that don't match up. Eventually they make a fake account to spy on their partner and find out, they've been lied to all along. That they really are still doing onlyfans and selling content on snap.


Which is worse and why do you think that?

No option for both are bad, cause trying to determine what most people think is the worst of the two.