I find it really hard to trust people especially men because of things that have happened to me in past and I'm sure that many other girls have been through the same but the ones who haven't almost get jealous and try and tell me I'm overreacting which is so fucked up.
I'm aware I'm average looking and that I'm a nobody, I don't understand just as much as the people I tell this to why I always get creeps after me and if they do they usually victim blame me and tell me I'm too trusting and or too polite because obviously that man who tried to get me into his car when I was walking home from work knew that just from looking at me.
I've tried to forget these things and block them out of my memories but I've had people try and kidnap and traffic me on more than one occasion too the point my dad had to fight off a kidnapper to save me. I've had men try and come through my window when I was on hoilday and I was only 11 to kidnap me. I've had men following me around when I'm shopping and not take no for answer. I've had male co workers try to get me so drunk at Christmas parties that they can pretend to play hero and take me back with them when actually there intentions aren't so good heroic but involve attempted rape. People try and blame me for getting myself in these situation but I've always managed to survive every single one which actually makes people believe me less but these things happened because I didn't get raped or kidnapped. I always have a trust my gut instinct with men now but at the time when I say something to a friend or just walk away from a guy I'm being a bitch or I think highly of myself. I'm so sorry but I never want to be in them positions again.