My husband has just befriended his ex on facebook and me and him are not even friends?

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My husband has just befriended his ex on facebook and me and him are not even friends?
Me and my husband have been together for 5 years.

He just added his ex on facebook.

They were together loooooong ago, but when me and him got together he was writing her trying to rekindle things.

I don’t like it because I guess he would be jealous if I did the same and he was writing her again before me and him got together.
But also because he was lying to me when we got married. He had a marriage and divorce certificate from X country, he hasn’t actually been married before, but he got it made for X reason. That’s for sure, then when he got married he had to send it in with the other documents. He told me the name was made up and not an actual name. That’s the thing I don’t like because then I found out it was his ex girlfriend in X country.


He doesn’t know I know any of this.

I know the right answer is probably to talk to him. But I am angry, sad, hurt, I can feel my heart beating really hard right now.

I would like to ask her before confronting him to get both sides.

I know it is probably a small thing, maybe I am overreacting. But I have had so much bs in the past with past partners and I can’t take anymore and I thought I could trust this one.

If anything happend I would like to know the truth asap so I don’t waste time.

What do you think I should do?

Could I text her (I don’t have anything against her at all, so it is not the confront her but to ask her if he is trying to chat her up) Or better to not say a thing or to confront him.

Oh and me and him are not even friends on facebook, don’t know why. Doesn’t matter that much to me, or it didn’t but now it does when he is friends with his ex on there but not with me. We have each others picture though with our son on our facebook accounts.
My husband has just befriended his ex on facebook and me and him are not even friends?
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