Search Results: friends first

Does he like me or just being very friendly/nice? Friends or more than friends?

Recently I met up with a friend and hung out for about a week. I initiated the hugs and touches at first but subsequently he was also very open to touching me. I do like him so I initiate most of the physical contact. He...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

If I don’t find a woman physically attractive at first glance then there’s no possibility of her being a romantic interest for me. This normal?

Pretty much as stated, now I’m not saying there’s universal leagues or anything like that. I truly don’t believe that. You want proof the leagues don’t exist go to your local shopping mall on any Saturday. But to me while...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why would my friend buy me flowers for my birthday if he wasn't going to act?

I know him from school, and he's the only guy in our class (our career path is very female-dominated). Even though he is my friend, he almost seems to "prefer" talking to other people over me. Part of me understands,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

I asked out a guy first and got a late response?

I been liking this guy for a while and I see him in the hallways and events frequently, however I don’t know much about him. I’m more attracted for his looks. Today I asked him if he wanted to go out with me and he said...

flufflypanda101

Xper 1 Age: 24

Guy's Behavior

I thought he liked me. Does he just see me as a friend?

I met him in my Ph. D. program. Our field is very female dominated, and he's the only man in the class. I'm very introverted and have severe social anxiety. Even in social settings, I still talk really fast and stammer....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Why is it so easy for me to talk to her?

I met someone ( 30s Female ) a few weeks ago. She is so easy to talk too. We were clicking like crazy on the first week. We because best friend and now we're seeing each other. Nothing is rushed or forced. All 100%...

scott04sa22

Guru Age: 40

Guy's Behavior

I thought he liked me. So why doesn't he try talking to me or taking more initiative?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Do you think my best friend is right in telling me I should break up with my 6’5 boyfriend?

So the day after the job interview, my boyfriend (let’s call him Evan) texted me that he got the job and he started yesterday and I’m so happy for him. I said congratulations but he didn’t respond to me. I haven’t heard...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

How old were you when you had your first kiss?

I was 11/12. With a friend.

Maria0002

Xper 1 Age: 25

Dating

Should I tell my friends with benefits how I feel about her?

I’ve been friends with benefits with this girl for almost eight months now. She had just gotten out of a (sexually frustrating) relationship with a man and said that she just wanted to blow off some steam. Also, she says...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

What does my guy friend see in me?

We're not dating. I don't even know if he likes me like that. I know him from school. I introduced myself to him at orientation. We both found commonalities in the fact that we had speech impediments as kids. For the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Should I dump this person?

I (25f) been talking to this guy (25m) for about a month and a half. The first month we were long distance and he seemed fine. However, when the gap closed as in, I moved to another city that was closer to him (for other...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Why does my ex want a friendship so bad?

About six months ago my ex and I ended our relationship, it was my choice for us to end. He was being really distant and it was a long year of toxicity from both sides. After a month or two he contacted me and was curious...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Why is nothing being done about this? Did you hear about this?

Trump has illegally fired the Inspectors General, whose job it is to make sure that money of the taxpayers in this country isn't stolen for what it was intended (when there is a mandatory time of 1 month to send this to...

Amy10223

Yoda Age: 69

Dating

Is it mean of me to get the ick over the guy I'm dating not being very strong?

I started dating this guy about a month ago and everything is going great. He's very attractive, successful, sweet and funny. He's struggled in the past keeping a girlfriend due to his career. He became very successful at...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

He and I aren't super close friends, so why would he buy me flowers for my birthday?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Why do I resent my boyfriend for doing 50/50 for rent and groceries?

I know the people around me, my sister, her best friend and my mom all are taken care of by men who are providers and pay for almost everything. My best friend even says a guy should be a provider, as in pay for most...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Is dada for easier to pronounce than mama for a baby?

One of my friends was trying to get her baby girl to say mama but her first word was dada and then daddy. The baby won't say mama. Is that more easier to pronounce for a baby?

Marblesxoxo

Xper 4 Age: 26

Guy's Behavior

Does it sound like he likes me?

I met this guy back in the fall of 2023 and we hit it off but were mainly friends with benefits. I started noticing that when he would tell a joke or hear something he thought was funny on the tv, he would look at me to...

throwmeaway1111

Xper 4 Age: 26

Dating

Why do people do this?

So I have a friend who set me up with a friend of hers. She reached out first but instead of the texting or messaging me, she found me on FB dating and message me there. Needless to say, we hit it off immediately. All was...

RLM75604

Xper 1 Age: 49