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Search Results: trying too hard
How can guys have a perfect relationship after dating you? I was treated badly and he's moved on to a happy relationship now for a year?
I feel I was not treated very well by my last boyfriend. He would only see me once a week, he would forget to text me back for two days sometimes, and he never wanted to spend much time with me, he was very distracted. He...
Anonymous
(25-29) How to pursue a woman and know if she is not just being friendly?
I still haven't figured the dating scene out with women. One minute I think I do, other times I don't. Some folks might think I am trolling, but I am not because I haven't found a way to figure this out. One recent piece...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why does it feel like I need perfect social skills to talk to women, is that just how it is or like am I crazy or something?
Like every time I talk to a girl I feel I’m absolutely just walking on eggshells. Like I say or do one slightly wrong thing and that’s it off to playing hard to get til the end of time or completely losing interest. I...
Intothevoid666
Xper 5 Age: 30 Would you work if you married?
I feel like being religious is a full time job cause I am always trying to self clean myself of my impurities and I think if I had kids and a house to clean, working anything other than personal business or digital labour...
Would you read about someone's life experiences and what they felt they learned from them?
I haven't had the MOST exciting life, but I've had a lot of unusual experiences, a writer might say I'm in the middle of a very unlikely come up story and it's involved many, many trials and tribulations, ranging from...
How to be less pessimistic and more optimistic?
started talking to this guy who I had doubts about. He seemed too ghetto, too old, too much, while I liked to stay in my little bubble. But after having a few conversations with him I realized that actually he was pretty...
MilaRay
Xper 7 Age: 28 How to start being more optimistic and less pessimistic?
I started talking to this guy who I had doubts about. He seemed too ghetto, too old, too much, while I liked to stay in my little bubble. But after having a few conversations with him I realized that actually he was...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is beauty too common to be valued?
At my old job there was a small group of 20 year olds who were more beautiful than Tyra Banks and also intelligent and hard working and nice, and I only saw the less attractive among them get boyfriends, and none of these...
Boyfriend's best friend being weird? Or am I overreacting?
So this relationship is newer (two months in two days) and I've been trying to befriend my boyfriend's friends since he wants me to and I don't mind. Been getting to know one of my boyfriend's closer friends (they've...
Anonymous
(18-24) Being physically attractive as a guy isn’t really that helpful, I thought it would be life changing but it just makes u hate women true or false?
Let me explain my experience being attractive and for reference I haven’t always been really attractive but I’ve always been quite a bit above average looking. I’m 6ft tall have 10 visible abs, pretty good facial...
Intothevoid666
Xper 5 Age: 30 Why do men get so wound up sometimes?
Went to my weekly boxing class last night. We were only two, and our coach asked us to spar a bit. I'm not that good, I still a lot of training, especially cardio, but I landed a couple hits. After one of the...
Anonymous
(30-35) Am I trying too hard? Should I put myself first? Or am I overthinking? </3?
Hi, so I have a really close friend who I haven’t seen since the beginning of quarantine. We’ve been friends for almost 9 years now and we consider each other to be our closest friend. We’ve been through a lot and tbh,...
Anonymous
(25-29) Are bigger balls more sensitive to getting hit?
I was messing around at the playground with my friends, when I slipped on the monkey bars and one foot went to either side of the bar. I slammed my balls pretty hard, and fell on the ground for what must have been half an...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do you have a pet, what pet is it?
I have a cat but last year we got a ferret and I gotta say if you want something to keep you busy, when this thing isn't sleeping it's destroying your house, you gotta baby it cause it has way too much energy, it's either...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I pursue a relationship?
I recently got my crushes snap and right now I'm nervous asf as to how I pursue things. she's in my speech class and overtime I started liking her. She has a really cute personality. She striked me as someone who is...
Anonymous
(25-29) I've been stuck at 200lbs forever now. Can someone help me cut weight?
I think my ideal weight is like 20 pounds lighter than now, but i need to lose like 30 pounds of fat and fluid and build back like 10 pounds of muscle. I am eating a lot healthier than I used to eat, but still having...
Wade12345
Xper 7 Age: 45 How do I stop enjoying attention from other men?
I'm gonna be totally honest here so please no judgement it's just something I can't help as much as I try to fight it. I feel like it's my evil, selfish side that I constantly have to fight. I have a boyfriend of 3 years...
Anonymous
(25-29) The way women approach dating makes dating nearly impossible for men true or false?
How hard it is to simply get to know most women on a basic level is frustrating. Like I would like to ideally have an in depth conversation with lots of women before deciding to date one but getting an in depth...
Intothevoid666
Xper 5 Age: 30 Can you tell when a shy/introvered person likes you?
Hi all, Looking for an opinion and advice more so on if you can tell if a shy/introverted person likes you. As background a while ago I asked out a former colleague who said that they didn't want to rule out a date...
Anonymous
(30-35) How Traumatizing Was It For You Growing Up In a Household With That One or Both Parents?
Describing this further, did any one of your parents or stepparents yelled at you constantly or made you feel scared, growing up in the household? I have - a stepdad, a "man" my mom married because he apparently gives...
Youryeodongsaeng
Explorer Age: 22 