Why does it feel like I need perfect social skills to talk to women, is that just how it is or like am I crazy or something?

Like every time I talk to a girl I feel I’m absolutely just walking on eggshells. Like I say or do one slightly wrong thing and that’s it off to playing hard to get til the end of time or completely losing interest. I can’t be too interested but I also have to show enough interest and I can never be even slightly boring or dull. And if I seem at all “too” interested in sex that’s bad. Even tho I’m a guy and I’m obviously interested in sex. And each girl has different rules and stuff on how ur supposed to socialize with them. Like some women if I text them too much it’s a turn off but other women if I don’t text enough it’s a turn off. I feel like I just can’t win and have to try over and over and over just throwing shit at the wall hoping something sticks and whatever sticks is like never something I want. And is generally very time consuming. Why r women like this? Why is getting dates with women sooooo hard like I don’t understand. Wohmen explain yo selves.
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