What do you feel about dating a Muslim girl?

[Anonymous]

Hello! :)
I'm a Muslim girl and has been talking to an European guy, the guy was all over me with talking and stuff but he knew that I don't do any sexual contact before marriage.. and one day he said that is a plus not something bad.. but I don't know if I can believe him since he never added me on his social media.

What about you guys? would you ever wait for a girl? ...
would you as a christian or atheist date a Muslim girl and be serious about it? knowing that at some point you might need to know her religion more than her if things got serious?
and how do you feel about waiting, does it make you lose interest? ...

Once a guy told me "everything in you is perfect, just that you are muslim.. is kinda ruining it"
why would anyone say that? .. Isn't it about accepting someone spirituality and in all other aspects?

[curiousnorway]

Would you date a muslim?

I would probably not date a muslim. As a person who doesn't believe in gods etc. I prefer dating someone with similar belief as me. I'm not into dating someone with any religions, but especially not Islam for instance, because I prefer a partner with a more Western culture and views on things. These Muslims I've seen do have some conservative opinions that I'm not a big fan of. Example what people can/can't eat, women's rights, what to wear, praying five time a day etc.

If I dated a Muslim, my date have to respect women's rights plus me and my family's way of living. I would still eat what I likes to, wear what I wants to and do what I wants to do. Just because the date is religious doesn't mean I needs to be it too in the relationship. If my date couldn't respect that, I would simply just break up.

I knows it exists conservative religious from all religions. But where I lives the majority of Christians for example aren't conservative. They're quite modern and Western. Most Muslims in my area are immigrants and refugees with a different culture and values. Many of them have opinions about women's right and the Western way of living that I'm disagreeing with. I've not met modern Muslims in my area yet. My cousin broke up with a Muslim because he wanted her to convert and if she didn't, he wouldn't spend his time with her anymore.

This is my opinion about the subject according from what I've seen now. If I meets a modern Muslim I might change my opinion, but I doubt I would meet one very soon.

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Saving sex for marriage?

When it comes to saving sex for marriage I'm fine other people are doing it, but I'm honestly not into marriage and thinks it's fine just being a couple. I don't need any marriage. I thinks I needs to know a person for almost a year before going to bed with them.

[EmptyVoid]

I am an atheist and I don't mind dating a Muslim girl. If I really liked I'd definitely respect her and wait until marriage before we have any sexual contact.

Someone who truly likes you will accept everything about you including your religion. I hope your crush will do the same!

[EmptyVoid]

liked her*

[SteppingOnRoses]

aww that is... aww

[EmptyVoid]

@SteppingOnRoses lol thanks

[BellePepper]

If a person doesn't respect your religion and your religion is "ruining" you, they don't respect you

[Asker]

I agree.

[AdventureWW231]

I agree

[SteppingOnRoses]

I have a question... if you dated and atheist, would he have to convert to marry you?

[TheMoroccangirl]

Sadly with parents like mine (even when theyre pretty modern ) yes, however I'm okay if he is just gonna act muslim around my parents. I respect his belief. If he doesn't believe, it's totally fine with me

[SteppingOnRoses]

I see

That's good to hear

Not all think like you

[TheMoroccangirl]

It's sad I know

[SteppingOnRoses]

it's ok

even christian parents have problems with kids marrying other religions...

oh well

[holograph]

I'm atheist and usually would not be interested in dating someone religious. Someone that is religious may be a good person but religions imply specific value systems that I don't agree with. I also look at the history of various religions and I simply can't agree that they've been beneficial to society. And while you only asked about dating someone, if it did happen to last long term and we happened to have children, I wouldn't be okay with religious values being expected of the child.

There may be exceptions out there but for me the exceptions would be people who might as well have a religion only on paper.

[TheEnvy]

I would certainly wait for a girl if I love her. As for the faith, people are thinking that Muslims are scary. I don't know why, perhaps thanks to our modern media, terrorism etc. It is a stupid point of view though. I've learned much more about being a proper human from Muslims, rather than other confessions.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Depending on how religious you are and how religious the other person is, the relationship might not work. There are plenty of guys who don't mind waiting until marriage, whether religious or not. But, I will like to add again that how religious you are and how religious your man is, can be the limiting factor in the relationship. It's very difficult and I would say impossible for a Christian and a Muslim to be in a relationship unless both of them aren't religious.

[SteelerNation50]

I don't have a problem with religious people but I am an atheist so I won't be religious myself. I don't mind waiting for sex but until marriage wouldn't work for me because I don't plan on getting married anytime soon as I want to be in a very different place in my life for that.

[Vanjasper]

It's all about accepting the person you're interested in. If you are serious about them, you have to accept and respect their lives, culture and beliefs, if they are from a different culture and religion. Not the easiest thing to do, but if you are loved in return, your efforts may see your SO to be a treasure in your life.

[makss6585]

I know lot of muslim girls that don't wait till marriage. Fuck it, you can't even have church ceremony if not same religion then why bather? I slept with 2 muslim girl, i have them on social media, nothin wrong bout it. I think he thinks you are special and he is willing to wait as long as he fucks around till you are not ready :)

[Adrell]

I'm an Atheist and I would date a religious girl. I wouldn't date a girl who would expect me to change my beliefs to match theirs.

[praveensai]

I love to date a Muslim girl because they are very clever , adorable and very lovable. he is just missing the great time with you. don't worry , may be he won't worth to you

[qa12017]

You are clearly not religious, you might as well just make it official with him and sleep with him.

[Asker]

No I won't sleep with him, did you even read that?
so if I talk to a guy I'm not a religious girl? I don't have any faith in saving my body?

[qa12017]

Stop. You're practically with him already, and want to sleep with him. Doesn't seem very "religious" to me.

[Asker]

I don't wanna sleep with him I took the opinions of others on the matter in general, now if you could stop making people bad, who do you think you are? god? stfu.

[Asker]

oh wow, you have no right to curse me, and what are you muslim boy? what are you doing here? a pimp?

I'm disappointed to even call you a Muslim is a waste, your words are so ugly for it to be any Muslim.

[qa12017]

Fuck off slut.

[Asker]

"“The Muslim is the one from whose tongue and hand the people are safe, and the believer is the one people trust with their lives and wealth.”

and clearly you are not a muslim, you wannabe muslim, I won't go down to your level. A man like you is a shame for muslims and humanity.

[qa12017]

A hoe like you shouldn't claim to be religious.

[jpick00]

@qa12017 wtf is wrong with you?

[iamwhale]

@qa12017 you are clearly not religious either by behaving the way you do.
49:10-12 is a good read for you.

[qa12017]

@iamwhale... never claimed to be.

[nbbn5]

i am not christian or Atheist but i have no problem in dating a Muslim girl
and i will respect her decision of no sexual contact before marriage

[Kaschi]

I guess you could call me an atheist. I don't care about your religion in connection to u as much as I don't like religions... sounds strange right? But its true!

If someone doesn't like you because of your religion he is stupid in two ways.

[Omar5881]

Well if he's not muslim you know you can't marry him
And westerns generally ain't fully comfortable with Muslims unless you're like really cool

[Vanjasper]

A few years ago i was a guest at a wedding between a Muslim and Hindu, when i lived in London.

[Omar5881]

@Vanjasper yeah it won't be Islamic marriage it will be related with the court

[Vanjasper]

It seemed like a very happy event. That's the important thing.

[oldoldold]

well im not joining any religion so there is no way she would date me

[truthbeknown]

Probably not because I want a woman with her vagina and clit still intact.

[Asker]

rude.

[truthbeknown]

Why is that rude? Do I not have the right to want a woman who hasn't been mutilated?

[TheMoroccangirl]

muslim girls don't get circumcised or whatever you think. Nothing gets changed down there

[Asker]

that's not Islamic, that's an African or a tribal tradition, do your research.

[truthbeknown]

You're kidding right? You're so full of shit.

[TheMoroccangirl]

Kidding? you must be a troll. I'm a muslim and no girl in my family got ever circumcised. In fact it's forbidden to perform it on girls according to the religion.

[truthbeknown]

@TheMoroccangirl Good, please spread the word!
nationalpost.com/.../41b00437-a3a4-4e6e-980f-d995827069ed

[Asker]

oh so muslims arne't people that belong to different tribes and culture? hahaha
ofc the media will say " MUSLIM " what about his background, give me a break there is no islamic thing about it, they just love to make it muslimanian cause if he was not muslim they will say just his country or something... but if he is muslim naah just say muslim.

[truthbeknown]

Ok, so whats wrong with having sex before marriage then?

[Asker]

it's a personal choice, even non muslim girls can have.. you realize that? for different reasons people would choose to have sex after marriage, let it be religious or personal or cultural.

There is no right way of doing things if someone chooses to it's their choice and if they don't its their choice too. there is only different ways.

[truthbeknown]

Right, you have entitlement to your opinion, but you are denying the validity to mine. Worse case scenario, I date a woman, but she never lets me have any sexual relationship with her. We finally have sex on our wedding night to find she cannot physically enjoy sex and I have nothing to lick on her vagina because the clit and hood have been cut off. That is not what I want. Also, I have been mislead to believe she was a fully functioning woman only to find out that isn't true. We are now married and now stuck with that. That is not what I wanted. That isn't fair. I understand this is rare and hypothetical. But, I hope you see where I am coming from and why I answered the way I did.

[TheMoroccangirl]

Muslim sect. You've read it well. It's something different than following the general religion.

[Seppelson]

I like muslim girls but I am not willing to wait so I would choose a less religiös girl

[TheMoroccangirl]

I'll be in the same case soon.

[Blitzkrieger]

No. I can't be with someone who supports circumcision.

[Asker]

Who supports circumcision? what does that has to do with this...
it's in Judaism and many other religions and cultures for men to be circumcised, what does that has to do with this?

[Blitzkrieger]

I can't date women from these religions and cultures either.

[Asker]

and if you mean for girls, that's not Islamic nor it's preformed, it's a cultural tribal things in some tribes, don't mix things up with region.

[Asker]

Good for you that's your personal choice there is no debate here.

[Blitzkrieger]

They do it on boys too.

[Asker]

yeah they do it on boys too not just in islam google that.

[Blitzkrieger]

I've told you i can't date girls who support it regardless of religion or culture.

[Asker]

Good for you then

[BronzedAdonis]

east is east, west is west

[Anonymous]

religion is not important personality is