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Search Results: what would put you off
Girls, how much longer do I give it before we have a serious talk about things?
so I've been talking/ seeing this girl for a little bit now. we met online (her profile is now deleted) and we have hung out 5 times and six is a strong possibility. things go well, she texts me first, initiates hanging...
zes0511
Xper 3 Age: 36 I’m being ignored today. Why is everyone so gloomy today?
At work today, it was a gloomy day and it was raining. Some people were into themselves and whatever. I said good morning to a couple of people and they just gave me short work answers. One was like, “I’m okay I...
Anonymous
(25-29) How to get guys to buy me gifts?
I want to be spoiled but I feel shy asking him for stuff. It might put him off … I don’t know hehe
Anonymous
(25-29) What do you think of Beyoncé and Jay Z’s daughter Blue Ivy at the 2024 Grammys all grown up?
She’s growing up so beautifully man. I didn’t and don’t usually watch the Grammys but when I was told they were there and I seen pics of her at the Grammys not knowing her or her parents would be there, I couldn’t believe...
Is he selfish or am I overreacting?
My boyfriend has been going through a lot the past few months. I've been there for him and concerned about him and tried to console him. But lately I've realized how I have put myself last and how he hasn't put as much...
Cali86
Xper 4 Age: 40 Is he playing me or is this a misunderstand on both parts?
met this guy on insta, started talking and both liked eachother a lot, i did make it clear i only saw him as a friend and he was fine with it, he did give off red flags like badmouthing all his exes and said he hadn’t...
Anonymous
(18-24) I need help with this situation please?
So my friends and I were chilling at a friends place and we were drinking and having fun, then after dinner one of my guy friends asked me to join him outside. We went to his car and played some games that he had in his...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why are men 18 to 25 or so immature and silly?
Not talking about all but too many I met act like 14 year olds it's very unnatractive and puts me off.
VanillaBomb
Xper 4 Age: 29 People say I don’t need to lose anymore weight and I’m not built to be slim. Are they right or wrong?
I’ve struggled to lose weight since I was a teen. I’ve always envied the slender girls that wear crop tops and have flat bellies. Some girls said they wish they had my shape and not every thin person is happy with...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you like my Viking warrior tattoo?
I posted about this before. Gag put it in how do I look which royally pissed me off. If I want something in how do I look that’s where I will put it
Kingofkings1992
Guru Age: 34 Why do some guys get insecure then start playing games?
What’s the point? To check interest.. test the waters.. put someone off?
Finfin1981
Xper 5 Age: 45 Should I be mad or is he not flaking?
My boyfriend is notorious for flaking. He’s done it to his friends and oftentimes even in our relationship. He doesn’t see it as flaking so much as going with the flow. In fact he tries not to say he will do something bc...
Anonymous
(25-29) I don’t understand what’s wrong with being a placeholder for men?
I put in my bio on dating apps that I’m open to being a placeholder… doesn’t really include sex but I’m open to being emotional support and offering those emotional things that you may need or when you’re just lonely… I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why don’t parents warn the partners of their daughter?
Like if you know your daughter has mental health issues from stuff that she watched you and your partner go through. Her mom and dad beat the shit out of each other. Her father was also an addict and the mom an alcoholic...
Anonymous
(30-35) What was your last dumb idea?
One of my hockey teammates plays on a local semipro football team, and he knows I used to play. He said the team is having a meeting tomorrow night for this summer’s season, and he’s trying to encourage me to play for...
How common is sexual harassment of female assistants in the workplace?
Or even worse, sexually harassed or subjected to unwanted avances? Today I interviewed the woman that was forwarded to me for the role of driver and assistant factotum. We discussed the job, duties, pay, benefits and...
Sun_Kim-Ai
Guru Age: 28 The icks in dating?
Often, someone is said to get "the ick" when they are suddenly repulsed by a person they once were attracted to. The ick is typically used to describe a sudden feeling of disgust that seems to come out of nowhere. It...
Anonymous
(36-45) Hi, was my guy friend flirting with me?
Hi! I have this close guy friend I started off as coworkers with we still work together but we’re both planning to quit soon. He’s called me pretty multiple times. He got a stick shift car and was showing it off to me, I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why are leftists - including feminists, gays, trans, etc. - sooo pro Palestine when in Palestine they'd have little rights & maybe even slaughtered?
As someone who was born in a Muslim country, whose parents moved to America when I was three, I honestly don't get it. Are they truly that stupid? I mean in Palestine there are not a lot of women's rights. Compared to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Was my guy friend flirting?
Hi! I have this close guy friend I started off as coworkers with we still work together but we’re both planning to quit soon. He’s called me pretty multiple times. He got a stick shift car and was showing it off to me, I...
Anonymous
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