met this guy on insta, started talking and both liked eachother a lot, i did make it clear i only saw him as a friend and he was fine with it, he did give off red flags like badmouthing all his exes and said he hadn’t touched a woman in months.
we ended up hanging out 2 days later and he barely talked to me and i nearly left. he had me on his arm / hugged me up and when we arrived home he seemed really in love, kept calling me “my love” said u was the best thing that’s ever happened to him talked about my body and how i had amazing hips and he wants to touch all of it ( he’d tell me this in a very excessive way and kept hinting at making out and sex).
i decided to hang out again because i genuinely do like him but i expressed some discomfort on behalf of his pressure for intimacy. when we hung out again he kept kissing me up and touching me up the whole day cus he kept asking if he could and i gave in, he saw me uncomfortable and asked if i didn’t like it, i said i dunno. he then asked if he could kiss me and i said not yet, asked again, i also said no. he then kissed me 4 times at a restaurant.
we met up with friends and decided to all drink (only us girls were drunk, him and the rest were sober) he then takes me to a bench, pulls me so i’m lying on his lap and kisses me. me drunk and knowing what he was hinting at, we started making out and i put his hands on my boobs since he kept telling me how he wanted to touch all my body, i touched him and he was hard, he then touched my ass but i was on my period so i moved his hand 4 times and then he told me “let me touch your ass come on”. the next day he asked to “kill the desire” between us and i kept telling him i’m not ready yet, and that i was drunk and not really thinking, he told me if he could at least touch me and how he wanted to finger me.
he then ghosted me and i asked what happened and he told me “saw me differently drunk and that he didn’t want to touch me”.
im so confused.
