I played hard to get and he hasn't contacted me in two months, Is it over?

[Anonymous]

I'm just wondering whether playing HTG actually works, I really like him, he's pretty looking ngl but he didn't make a move for a whole 3 months, I was giving him hints left, right and centre. Then he asked whether we could hangout and I refused. He said he likely misunderstood but he unfollowed me and I got really mad he did that. Like seriously isn't that just immature? I ignored him for a total of two months and he just acts like nothing ever happened. I've given him hints for the entire months and tried to make him jealous a couple times. He's still nice to me and acts like nothing ever happened. One reason I played HTG was because I didn't want to think I was easy and whether he really cared or not. All of the other guys I've seen have been jerks , they're good looking but they're not nice. To be honest, I don't know what to think I don't think it works at all. What should I do and who is in the wrong?

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Lmao, you fucked up. Don't play games. Date someone seriously and communicate like a fucking adult.

Of course he left you, who wouldn't? No one has time or interest in these sorts of mind games. Men (hopefully) value their time, themselves, and their mental well being too much to bother with a clearly manipulative person.

[Exterminatore]

Look at that smoke, another one I can fully agree with. Well said.

[Guy13]

Called your bluff and discovered it was for the best. Done ✅

[Exterminatore]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[Exterminatore]

Well that one backfired didn’t it?


Yeah he’s gone.

[Exterminatore]

FYI you’re in the wrong. What would you think if some guy gave you hints and you worked up the courage to ask him out and he blew you off?

The only possible way to fix this is tell the truth. Yeah, you’ll have to eat a huge slice of humble pie, but it might work.

If it were me, and I was pretty interested previously I’d find it endearing you had the guts to tell me of your stupidity and I’d probably give you another chance. He may do that and may not.

The only way your gonna fix this one is by humbling yourself and risk being shot down yourself.

If you can’t, write it off as a loss and lesson learned the hard way.

[Tyrael]

Yeah that backfired, time to move on.

[whereismyjohnny]

You fucked up. Playing games is stupid.

[NightmareWasOpen]

maybe dont manipulate people lol