I've been seeing a guy for about a month. We also dated years ago, but this time is better. We have a great time together, seem to have an emotional connection/chemistry, and hang out from evening til sunrise every time. He went from pursuing me hard, cute texts, wanting to see me consistently, to being visibly less interested and more distant. We went from texting every day and him saying he misses me, to days without a word. It really hurt, but I didn't push him. I'm think he is seeing other girls, but the fact that im not the number 1 girl and just on a roster makes me feel horrible.
We aren't exclusive so he can do what he wants, but it sucks that I went from feeling special and chased to someone he lost interest in. Because of our connection when together I had the impression he liked me, and couldn't accept that he didn't - I thought maybe he was being avoidant because I was playing it really cool.
We saw each other twice last week, and hung out last night, and I had the impression he didn't want to hang out today because he had a better offer, or another girl to see - I had enough with feeling this way. I texted him after he left saying I honestly like him/have feelings for him, and I can't do this anymore. I said that if I misunderstood we can talk about it, and that our time together was special to me and I wish him the best. He replied right away saying I definitely misunderstood and said "I adore you". I ignored him, and he texted a few more times today, the last one saying he's confused why I'd end it if I like him, and we have amazing time together and he likes me. I'm not sure what to do. I've been ignoring hoping he will do something more, because he was so disinterested before and I'm over it, but I know that's kinda toxic (he deserves it though). Should I wait and let him sweat a bit more? I feel like he got bored with me, and I don't like how I felt at all before. Or should I just text back and communicate what made me feel weird?
