Like if you know your daughter has mental health issues from stuff that she watched you and your partner go through. Her mom and dad beat the shit out of each other. Her father was also an addict and the mom an alcoholic who did drugs and still a heavy drinker. She never warned me of the bad mental health her daughter had I only was able to piece things together when she would would occasionally drop things along the way saying it or if she would have a temper tantrum or meltdown. Like ultimately the girl started treating me like shit and her mom was coming over one day she took me for a ride to the store for the sole purpose of talking to me one on one saying she hopes that the girl doesn’t run me off. So my thing is if you knew all these things about your daughter why let it progress to a point where it goes off the rails and now my mental health suffers cause I would have to put up with all this why not be upfront in the beginning and let me know so I could have made a better decision
Because they're bad parents. Do you expect a bad parent to do well with anyone if they don't even do well with their kids? Of course not. That's why the dating phase exists, to figure out this stuff about the other person.
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In the western world, I noticed that the family values are underrated. You don't have to deal with her daughter. You still the choice to move on. Your mental health is your obligation to look after it.
Cause it’s not really the parents’ business to get involved in relationships. At least not until way later into the relationship
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If the parents are also crazy why do u expect them to act sensible and not only that its not a parents problom to deal with it
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