Search Results: being guarded

Girls, I’m not a mushy, cutesy woman. Is there something wrong with me?

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not against relationships or romance or anything like that. However, I just recently got back into the dating scene after years of being single. The last guy I was with fucked me over and dated...

silvermoon84

Yoda Age: 42

What to do when being a friend to him is taken as interest?

There is someone I work with who I did have an idea had a bit of a crush on me but I didn't find any interest in him but there was one day a bunch of co workers got together for a birthday so the co worker with a crush ,...

MegAn12_

Xper 4 Age: 29

Why am I suspicious of my bf’s romantic gestures?

My boyfriend is usually not a very affectionate person. He doesn’t express his love for me verbally or through affection, he shows love through acts of services. I often ask him to be a little more affectionate with me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

How is it possible that the national guard can be deployed to the NYC subway, but not the border where terrorists are crossing? Wasn't 911 enough?

What will it take to wake up liberal Americans from their slumber? I met a really cool cat from Mexico. He applied and got a migrant work visa. Back when we still had laws, that’s how it was done. It was a great system....

ChinaGrove

Xper 5 Age: 34

Will I ever find someone to love me?

Someone that isn’t controlling or overbearing. Why can’t i just find someone that sees I’m worthy of love and being held on to unconditionally. Men always use me than dispose me. I always feel like i have to be on guard...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Who would you feel sorry for more?

A) the girl who unexpectedly was caught off guard by surprised got raped Sexually Harassed and Abused without consent (OR) B. the girl who got dumped by her on & off toxic boyfriend then when she...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What does it mean when a guy says he doesn't like how things started off in the talking stage?

Guy kind of rejected me after we went out and he mentioned other stuff but he threw in that he didn't like how things started off during the talking stage... Was that just an excuse? Because if that's the case why...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What should I do about my boyfriend's urge to bring up past arguments to "fix" things between us?

Whenever my boyfriend and I have arguments, sometimes he acts like he's moved on from it, but the next day, out of nowhere, he says things like, I want to discuss yesterday, I'm still mad at you, to which I often reply,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Society & Politics

Guys, Why are people asking what's OK?

Our president has severe dementia. Criminals are repeatedly being released on the streets. America is 35 trillion in debt. Trump is on trial, but not any Bidens. We are hemorrhaging money to Ukraine. The national guard is...

ApplePie409

Xper 6 Age: 33

Did he like me?

i am a security guard sitting at the lobby and a very handsome man swiped his id card and smiled at me. guys usually don't smile at me. does it sound like he likes me or is he just being friendly?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Why Do People Want Let Obama Off The Hook, Just Because He's Smarter Than Biden?

I've noticed an unusual sentiment being bandied about in recent months, with the collapse of the cherished regressive left's heavily guarded narrative that America is bad and needs to be destroyed, etc, in that a lot of...

Billlewis

Master Age: 62

How do you trust in a romantic relationship?

You could be together with somebody who is absolutely stellar for 30 years and overnight they could change their mind out of boredom and blindside you by suddenly leaving you. You never see it coming, so there is a lack...

Juxtapose

Master Age: 37

How soon is too soon to start physically touching someone you’re seeing/dating and getting to know?

I have been talking to this girl for a month. I learned a lot about her and she can say the same about me. The difference is, she hasn’t exactly fully healed from her past relationship which she has only been out of for a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Anyone find this guy to be too eager/quick to reply?

Usually when they’re too eager, I get the vibe they’re either desperate or creepy. I’ve dealt with this before which is why I’m guarded, I know it’s too soon to say but I still think it’s worth noting. Or am I being too...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Usually when they’re too eager, I get the vibe they’re either desperate or creepy. I’ve dealt with this before which is why I’m guarded, I know it’s too soon to say but I still think

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How can I manage financial stress and encourage responsibility when my husband's anxiety affects his ability to work?

My husband and I were always splitting everything 50/50, until he bought a new car and things got financially tighter for him. I stepped up by working two jobs, covering his half of the rent and bills, and most of the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I need advice on how to approach this woman. Help please?

The situation is this: About a month or so ago, I walked into my neighborhood Walmart and noticed a new cashier working there whom I had never seen before. The very first time I saw her, it looked like she was being...

Overandunder89

Xper 4 Age: 36

Why do some individuals condone violence against others in relationships?

It came out that my brother has been in domestic violence in his ex relationship. We all feel bad for not knowing and stepping in sooner. He masked and hid it so well with his smile. He never talks about anything...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, do girls/women essentially have higher expectations on dating apps of best looking guys, best guys in shape and that's it?

I feel like girls and women don't take dating apps seriously. I understand you need to be attracted to the person. But in this day and age. I think there's no exact formula to talk to a girl or a woman. I understand...

Anonymous

(30-35)