It came out that my brother has been in domestic violence in his ex relationship. We all feel bad for not knowing and stepping in sooner. He masked and hid it so well with his smile. He never talks about anything involving that girl or relationship. I was in domestic violence myself years ago. He told me it wasn’t my fault for not knowing or realizing. I told him I’m tired of finding out stuff too late. We are always in these trauma situations not even realizing we been fooled again. As a family, we need to work on being more aware. We are educated in these areas and still don’t know. These narcissistic people make everything look so good to keep who they are covered up.
I made connection with the girl some months ago and cut her off not long ago. I disagreed with her lifestyle and her character. I had no absolutely idea that she was putting her hands on our brother. My brother made stuff looks so good and even our other brothers didn’t like the girl at all. We knew there were arguments of course, but not her beating on our brother. We seen videos and audio completely shocked. She was putting her hands on him and throwing stuff at him. I mean the things he told us were all lies and we feel so damn bad for not knowing. My own damn brother who is in the national guard with an incredible damn big heart. In the videos, he never fought back. It now make sense why he’s always buying her stuff and doing whatever she wanted.
I was in domestic violence years ago and he was deployed in Afghanistan during the time. I remember hiding it from him but he found out. I remember not wanting nobody to know anything but this is my oldest brother. My mom is upset because this has happened again.
my brother has fell out with nearly everybody. We grew up being targeted by people with masks because we never would fight back. We grew up in trauma but never healed from it. So the cycle repeats
now people are saying that “they hope she beat his ass again and that he’s weak”
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such words "hope she beat his ass again" are terrible!
it is one of the categories the u. s. excluded from free speech, but internet companies DO HOST for the "attack men" agenda. this is an important part of woke culture, for which DONORS support many internet companies to motivate physical violence to DESTROY the west from the inside.
because men are still seen as the physically stronger gender. and they are. but just cause you're stronger doesn't mean that you can't be victim of violence. cause men are also taught not to beat women... so they have no way to defend against a woman beating them.