Search Results: cold shoulder

I’m moving away next weekend and I found out a family member passed away yesterday, what should I do?

I already live 3 hours away from family, but I’m moving to another city next weekend so I’ll be living 8 hours away from them. I don’t have a great relationship with my family. I only speak to my mum and my step dad. The...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why won’t he just block me?

So I don’t know what happened between me and this guy but he’s been distant and giving me the cold shoulder. We got into a small fight since and he won’t respond to my messages. After several messages later, he finally...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My family don’t care about me, I’m scared of being alone during Christmas, what should I do? Why are they like this?

It’s very complicated and a long story. My sisters lived with mum and I lived with my dad growing up. Dad worked away so my former step mother looked after me and she was extremely abusive. Fast forward to now (I’m an...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Wait for “girlfriend” or reach out after I got the cold shoulder hanging with her friends a day ago? Lost of social media quotes/sadness today?

Context: I met my “gf” (saying girlfriend cuz it feels like it after a month of frequent hangouts) at an event Saturday and plans had changed from going somewhere solo afterwards to staying. She was visibly upset but I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

A woman I’ve been seeing for only 1 month is very hot and cold in certain situations. By ourselves very loving, cold with the group. Don’t understand?

So far from the past month of us hanging out solo she’s super loving, open, and communicative. We talk about our past which includes her ex who owns the bar where I met her. I was sceptical based off her actions of open...

New2this2

Xper 6 Age: 30

Girlfriend giving me attitude?

Recently my girlfriend has been giving me the cold shoulder because she feels like I'm supposed to take care of her every want/need. When I met my girlfriend I was willing to spend any amount so long as she was happy, but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Fashion & Beauty

Do you not understand women who want to be beauty queens when it’s uncomfortable to do so?

Like girls that wear clothes too hot or too cold cause it looks more fashionable then a weather fitting outfit or girls that wear high heeled shoes cause if makes them more attractive to high status men. Or girls that...

jennifer_bloom

Master Age: 41

Does anyone in here have a special person in your life, I'm pretty sure anyone here does. I need your help?

If you have someone special in your life that makes you happy all the time doing things for her, being there for her and taking care of her needs and wants, should they be ignoring me because they're busy but really on...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it an okay behaviour if your partner is critical of you?

My boyfriend asked me to lose weight saying he wants me to be healthy , I agreed coz he’s right, then he commented that my shoulders are wide, then he kept calling me pick me from time to time for no reason because I...

tonamimargaux

Xper 5 Age: 42

Feel like I’ve been shunned from my whole family, should I move far away?

My family are narcissists and very toxic. It started off with my dad and I think that then had an affect on my sisters. I lived away for my studies so I wasn’t really there. When I returned home, I was always put down,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

How do I know if a woman is bisexual or just nice to you?

Two examples from my real life : 1. Last year in Poland, I made a very good friend. The racing champion and a very smart girl we both were flying to China and we spent the holidays in Poland together, but the thing is she...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

Religion & Spirituality

I keep dreaming about a guy I don't even have a crush on?

This post is for those who are intuitives, etc. So miss me on the there's no such thing and blah blah blah. So there's this guy who, I suspect is very attracted to me, since he acts just weird and erratic. We'll call him...

DermalPunch

Explorer Age: 41

How do you prepare for jealousy and combat it?

unlike a lot of women I know my mom didn’t care much for looks. She never tried to force any of her daughters to fit into the beauty standard and always made me and my siblings feel that personality was far more...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

My ex date cancelled on our third date and won’t even look at me. How do I get him to give me another chance?

So in April, he canceled on our third date. His parents had to work late the Friday night before so I didn’t get a chance to meet them. He said he had to think about some things and he wasn’t happy with the fact that I...

AutisticLonelyWoman

Xper 4 Age: 23

AITA for being mad at my boyfriend after he mad me leave a music concert early cause he was "bored"?

I (25f) and my boyfriend (30m) went to a music concert a few nights ago, my favorite metal band was playing, this was my first music concert I've ever been to, and I was over the moon, when i found out this band was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Narc dad discarded me, how do you heal? I blame and hate myself but they all are ignore me?

My dad and my step mum are narcissistic. My dad abused my actual mum very badly that’s why they split (so I’m not just calling my dad a narc). My dad and step mum always criticised me, and anything good or positive news I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why did last two relationships end by the guy leaving me for someone else making it quite obvious that’s the reason why they were leaving?

I’ve had two boyfriends over the course of two years, which were my first real relationship i guess you could say. The first one was long distance. He migrated a year before and we reconnected on Instagram. He was...

Anonymous

(18-24)