I’ve had two boyfriends over the course of two years, which were my first real relationship i guess you could say.
The first one was long distance. He migrated a year before and we reconnected on Instagram. He was coming to visit the island and we decided to meet up. Just to chat. Anyways we ended up talking more and more everyday. And yk the thing with guys nowadays, he didn’t ask me to be girlfriend I just woke up one day and that was my title.
This relationship lasted for six months. I don’t wanna say that long cause he was giving me the cold shoulder and the “oh I have so much going on in my life” excuse for the last two months.
You might be saying the relationship lasted for only six months what’s the big deal, well he was first person I felt I had a real connection with I guess and again first ever relationship. For the last two months he’s been hinting that he wanted to end what we had by saying things like “he’s in a predicament “ along with basically ghosting me.
Although it hurt like hell I mustered up the courage to ask if he just wanted to call it quits which he agreed to. His reasoning “it just wasn’t working out how he wanted it to”. It’s an alright answer I get that but I just wished he more straight forward about it.
I kept him on all socials cause I wasn’t ready to let go, he texted me a couple times trying to talk. I declined because where was this effort for the last two months paired either the fact I knew he already had feelings for someone else. Low and behold he started soft launching another girl like two weeks after everything went down. That obviously really hurt me and I blocked him on everything and never looked back. I wish him all the best.
The same thing happened with the other dude after a month, can’t go into detail cause of characters but my question here is, why do you think this happened twice in a row. I don’t want to play victim. Be harsh.
The first one was long distance. He migrated a year before and we reconnected on Instagram. He was coming to visit the island and we decided to meet up. Just to chat. Anyways we ended up talking more and more everyday. And yk the thing with guys nowadays, he didn’t ask me to be girlfriend I just woke up one day and that was my title.
This relationship lasted for six months. I don’t wanna say that long cause he was giving me the cold shoulder and the “oh I have so much going on in my life” excuse for the last two months.
You might be saying the relationship lasted for only six months what’s the big deal, well he was first person I felt I had a real connection with I guess and again first ever relationship. For the last two months he’s been hinting that he wanted to end what we had by saying things like “he’s in a predicament “ along with basically ghosting me.
Although it hurt like hell I mustered up the courage to ask if he just wanted to call it quits which he agreed to. His reasoning “it just wasn’t working out how he wanted it to”. It’s an alright answer I get that but I just wished he more straight forward about it.
I kept him on all socials cause I wasn’t ready to let go, he texted me a couple times trying to talk. I declined because where was this effort for the last two months paired either the fact I knew he already had feelings for someone else. Low and behold he started soft launching another girl like two weeks after everything went down. That obviously really hurt me and I blocked him on everything and never looked back. I wish him all the best.
The same thing happened with the other dude after a month, can’t go into detail cause of characters but my question here is, why do you think this happened twice in a row. I don’t want to play victim. Be harsh.
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Is it possible that they only wanted to be friends with benefits and not a relationship? I don’t really know if nowadays there is not a conversation to define the relationship at all, but is it possible that you understand that you guys were in a relationship when you really weren’t?
I feel like nowadays people don’t really want the pressure to have a relationship and want to be free to do whatever they want and be with whoever they want, specially in your 20’s.
The first guy didn’t ask but he treated it like we were together and said tht I was his girlfriend and he was my boyfriend.
The second guy asked me to be his girlfriend. When he broke up with me he did say it felt like we were just friends tht did intimate things.
Well it seems to me that, like I said before nowadays people don’t want the pressure to be in a relationship. They just want to fool around while they are young and enjoy life. Not everyone thinks the same
Must have been something that was said or happened