We have known each other for a year. We dated twice, two months earlier last year (I ended up breaking up with him because he told me that he didn't want a serious relationship) after a six-month break-up, he came back to tell me that he was ready to commit to a serious relationship. We dated for another two months and I just broke up with him again because he's still immature and keeps on being influenced by his toxic friends to hang out and party rather than having boundaries and having a healthy relationship with me. He ended up telling me that he was still not ready for a relationship and only wanted a situationship. Why is this is happening? Why is he still choosing toxic people, a toxic lifestyle, and not ready to commit at 46 years old?
Guys, Why would a guy choose his friends over you despite the fact that he's in love with you?
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@boggboss - we went to his friend’s pool party, he got jealous and made me pay for it. He sabotaged the party by acting like he was talking to females who were his boyfriend ex anyway no treat. I got drunk jealous and he got mad at me. He made me pay for a week. We went to watch a game last time we were together, had a great time but after when I brought up the issues. He shut down. Didn’t want to talk about it and told me he can only offer situationship right now. I broke up with him.
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@boggboss - we went to a pool party, he got jealous, made me pay for it and then I got jealous and drunk. He gave me the silent treatment and was pissed on and off for a almost a week and talked to his friends about it not me. We got together again, had fun then when I brought it up he shutdown and told me he wants a situationship. I left him. He texted me for Christmas and that’s it.
