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Context: I met my “gf” (saying girlfriend cuz it feels like it after a month of frequent hangouts) at an event Saturday and plans had changed from going somewhere solo afterwards to staying. She was visibly upset but I assured her we could still go. She didn’t want to and told me she’d be leaving soon.
Thought it was strange and she ended up staying the entire night. I was given the cold shoulder the remainder of the night (keep in mind this event is all her friends) and I brought one guy with me.
After ignoring me a bunch I asked if she wanted to come to an event with my friends cuz she always invites me with hers, and she responded with “maybe too much”, asked her what’s wrong and she said we’ll talk later. I took that as a sign to leave and haven’t spoken to her in 24hrs.
She never asked for space, explicitly, but her comments and actions make me think she needs it. 🤷🏻♂️Social media strength and sadness stories are flying in on her story as she posts talking with her friends. Just don’t know if this is a sign to reach out or give her more time.
Thought it was strange and she ended up staying the entire night. I was given the cold shoulder the remainder of the night (keep in mind this event is all her friends) and I brought one guy with me.
After ignoring me a bunch I asked if she wanted to come to an event with my friends cuz she always invites me with hers, and she responded with “maybe too much”, asked her what’s wrong and she said we’ll talk later. I took that as a sign to leave and haven’t spoken to her in 24hrs.
She never asked for space, explicitly, but her comments and actions make me think she needs it. 🤷🏻♂️Social media strength and sadness stories are flying in on her story as she posts talking with her friends. Just don’t know if this is a sign to reach out or give her more time.
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Honestly I don't know why she is acting like this over what happened. Seems petty and not worth it. Not much you can do but maybe let her cool off for whatever reason she is worked up about it and give her a bit of time. That is what I would do if it were me. Not sure why she was so upset over a change in plans. That happens and often can't be controlled. Seems like an awfully small thing to get that upset over.
Couldn’t agree more with the pettiness for no reason. Only thing I could think in my head was she wanted her friends time before hanging with me, but in the end it was a big event hangout with everyone and I’d be inviting her unless it’s a guys thing. She’s also the one to tolled me before that she likes to go with the flow while I’m the one who likes a structured plan.
Was thinking of sending her a message saying hope your good, giving you space after our last encounter, lmk when ur ready… but I don’t know if I should give it more time. We’ve been in contact every day so this might be a jump for her. As is for me.
There's so many red flags here it looks like imperial china. Go find someone who isn't a train wreck and can actually communicate like an adult.
What does she think you are partying too much?
She knows I like to go out, but I’ve been very clear I want to dance with her and include her. After she claimed to want to leave, she stayed the whole night salsa dancing when she knows I love it. I think her mood got somewhat the best of her
Then what is her problem