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Search Results: first thing a guy notices
Guys and girls, What is the first thing you notice about a girl?
guys and girl, What is the first thing you notice about a girl?
Anonymous
(30-35) Was this guy genuinely attracted to me or just looking for a hole?
I'm 19 and haven't had much experience with guys. I'm scared of men not because I think you're all bad but it's a personal fear I have. I went to a bar with friends and some guys from college showed up. One of them, Liam,...
juju90
Xper 1 Age: 21 Ladies, whats the first thing you notice and, or check out on a guy?
Even if it's a random guy you see in public that you think is attractive.
M-Trimble
Xper 1 Age: 42 I cheated on my boyfriend and he can't forget it. What should do?
I cheated on my boyfriend almost two weeks ago with his so called friend. They weren't so close. My boyfriend decided to bring this friend to us and have some fun. We drinked alcohol a lot. Then we decided to go to the...
Anonymous
(30-35) My mom purpsely saeotage me so I wouldn't leave her... I feel like a loser what should I do?
So after a lot of therapy and talking to family members, I have realized my mom has purposely sabotaged me and my siblings so we wouldn't leave. My mom has done a lot of messed up stuff to us to make sure we are...
Anonymous
(30-35) Would this woman's crucifix stop you from approaching her?
In a survey off 1000 men. The first thing after her smile, guys said they noticed was her crucifix. A few said it made her look more wife material, but most said it was a big red flag because it meant she's the type who...
purplepoppy
Master Age: 26 Is consistent exercise something that builds on itself? Will I want to exercise more and do more forms of exercise the more I exercise?
I’m a 22 year old guy but I kind of do have the introverted “everybody please leave me alone and let me do my own thing” kind of mentality. I’ve kind of felt like a grumpy old guy the past couple of years if I’m being...
WhiteBoyChill
Yoda Age: 25 Why is my guy friend mean and hard to me and only me?
Hi everyone, I'm friends with a guy who is relatively my age. We're in our late 20s. I've noticed a pattern in the way that he treats me compared to everyone else. There are times where he is really nice and considerate...
Anonymous
(30-35) Zodiacs, Rise Again (Redux) 🙌
I’ve written something similar before and yes I’ll be writing something similar again. It’s very therapeutic when I express myself in writing about my experiences. So allow me to relax, see if you relate, and let’s all...
Why would he ask to keep contact only not to maintain contact?
Last week I went on a date. It was incredibly enjoyable and I stayed over to spend the night with him. In fact, I had my first kiss from this guy, and he knew about that. Anyway, we live on opposite sides of the world...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is he fed up with me or what?
I was at a week long program not too long ago, and there was this nice guy who was staring at me throughout the program, tried to stay near me, taking my lead on things even on the last day, etc. He even piggybacked on...
Superticklighgirl
Xper 5 Age: 23 Fear of being with the wrong guy?
Hi y'all. I'm 22 and I've been dating this guy for almost 2 years and he's my first long term boyfriend. We're both 3rd year Uni students. I do love him, he treats me well and I feel comfortable around him. But since the...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is this guy jealous or just being nosy I’m so confused?
He saw me talk to guy I really thought he wouldn’t care or notice but that same day he catches up to me bc I was walking and the first thing he asks me is “who was that guy I was talking to “ I said I don't know but he...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do guys regret treating girls badly?
I recently hooked up with a friend, we’d worked together several months prior to this and had been flirting on and off during this time. We always mentioned that we’d seen each other on hinge but we never did anything due...
Anonymous
(30-35) Fitness compatibility is a real thing!
Something that has always baffled me is when women choose to start working out AFTER a breakup even though their partner has mentioned many times in the relationship that they're getting fat. They do this as vengeance to...
Did I hurt him?
I met this guy at a program last week. I noticed him staring at my boobs almost in a zoned out way the first night, and I didn't think too much of it (They were fully covered by the way, I was wearing a shirt, so the only...
Superticklighgirl
Xper 5 Age: 23 Did I hurt him? Why is he acting this way? Guys, some insight please?
I met this guy at a program last week. I noticed him staring at my boobs almost in a zoned out way the first night, and I didn't think too much of it (They were fully covered by the way, I was wearing a shirt, so the only...
Anonymous
(18-24) Guys, Why is the interested shy guy avoiding me and what to do?
Hi guys, I don't write about these things but I don't know where to turn to. This is going to be a long read so thankyou for bearing with me. At work, I crushed on a guy at first sight and I haven't had a crush for years...
Ajuni
Xper 1 Age: 26 Notsure if my friend is a pick me? We are both in our early 30s. ?
Genuine question... We met at 19, I moved away at 21 and reconnected when we were about 29(I reached out first). A couple things made me believe that maybe she is a pick me: 1. We went away on new year's eve to see a...
Anonymous
(30-35) Have you ever seen someone go through this much suffering?
https://www.youtube.com/embed/JnxwL56Hxpk This is a 5 part video this is just the first one. But man this guy is tough. I'm really proud of him for even still being alive, overcoming his health problem, staying sane and...
Lynx122
Master Age: 36 