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My boyfriend of 2 months dumped me:
I texted him as I got home and said:

“You are still my friend DOO. It’s a promise we made long time ago. If you need me as a friend, or need to get anything from the states, don’t hesitate to tell me
I will be there for you, and will always support you regardless of the fact that we cannot be together
It was really lovely getting to know you as a partner DOO, and one day you will find someone you will truly love from your heart ❤️❤️I am sure of it
Happy Halloween”

3 days later- He later texted me and said:
“Dear Omneya
I’ve been sitting here thinking about all the things I wanted to apologize to you for. All the pain we caused each other. Everything I put on you. Everything I needed you to be or needed you to say. I’m sorry for that. I’ll always love you and you helped make me who I am. I just wanted you to know there will be a piece of you in me always, and I’m grateful for that. Whatever someone you become, and wherever you are in the world, I’m sending you love. You will always be part of my life
Love you forever and will always do🌍❤.”

Does that mean he regrets losing me? Should I text back?
It was so intense when he dumped me. He never respected me, and had a big ego. He gave out his bare minimum in the relationship. And never fully loved me. I was also toxic, I always pleased him and questioned his love for me. I was also dramatic to him (but I just did things straight from my heart. I felt it all unlike himself).
And when I stopped talking he waited 2 weeks to care to ask, and then I failed to tell him what he had done because I was hurt and was afraid to hurt him, so he dumped me... I felt bad for not giving him closure but he knows he repeatedly fucked me over when I gave it my all with him...

Pros and cons of dating a divorcee:

Pros
1. Time – divorce is often the result of a relationship where people rushed in too quickly and didn’t really take sufficient time to get to know each other. It is unlikely that someone who has been through this will want to make the same mistake again so they are more likely to take their time getting to know you.

2. Commitment – having already made a commitment a divorcee will often be much clearer about the realities of that decision and the problems that can arise.

3. Experience – when someone has been through the pain, loss and separation that divorce can entail, it can make them more rounded as a person.


Cons
1. Once bitten – for some divorcees the experience was so painful that they resolve to never make the same mistake again and therefore will not consider remarrying.

2. Emotional baggage – a bad divorce can leave people bitter, angry, resentful and with a skewed view of relationships. While their feelings may be entirely justified it may be impossible to break down the barriers and form a new relationship until they have worked through the issues. It takes time to heal and the more recent the divorce was the more likely it is that they are still working through their feelings.

3. Trust – although it is unfair to be judged because of someone else’s bad behavior, when a person has been badly hurt they are going to be wary of trusting again. You will need to be patient and over time trust will build as the painful past is replaced with healthier experiences in the here and now.

4. Family ties – if there are children from the marriage you have to accept, whatever the age of the children and whether they live with their parent or not, that this match comes as a package. Having children will usually also necessitate contact with the other parent to some degree and this can be difficult when a new relationship is developing.