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Time and time again I see larger percentages of women than men who favor leftist ideologies. I see it polls. I see it in comments. I see it in attitudes. I even see it on f*cking dating apps. And of course we know the voting percentages when it comes to gender.

On the surface I can understand why this might be. Leftists promise women the following:

• So called “freedom” with you body. No shame for being promiscuous and/or aborting a unborn fetus if you aren’t ready
• So called “awareness” of a “patriarchal” western society that oppresses women and a “need” to fight it.
• So called “equality” (excuse me “equity” now) or should I say a so say wealth distribution to those with lesser means vía socialism.
• So called “love” by not just accepting but taking things a step further celebrating those who take engage in alternative lifestyles (homosexuality, transitioning, etc.)
• So called “justice” by demonizing historically “privileged” groups of people for the sins of their fathers.

From an emotional perspective I can almost see the allure of the above.

But I feel the our western society has reached a point where all the above are no longer truly oppressed. Even when it comes to abortion and Roe vs Wade you can have the freedom to travel to a state has no restrictions. Many corporations will even pay for your trip now. Some states are entertaining the idea of using tax payer money to pay for the trip. And of course you can take responsibility to prevent getting an unwanted pregnancy in the first place. I don’t need to elaborate.

But besides pro-choice vs pro life (and whether is true freedom or not) do you really believe the direction of the Democratic Party will make women have happier and more fulfilled lives? It’s a bit ironic depression rates keep increasing for women in the last few decades besides having all this so called “progress”.

Anyway I don’t expect to talk anyone out of their political views on here nor vice versa.

Within the next century, we will see artificial wombs to solve the issue of morality in terms of having an abortion. We will remove the baby from the womb and have it develop artificially. This will be how the vast majority of pregnancies take place because they will be safer for girls and more practical.

Do not bring up the foster care system because by this time, that will be improved as well.

In recent weeks, with the looming possibility (now reality) of Roe v. Wade being overturned, I have read countless comments from women saying that men should do more to support women in their fight for reproductive choice. But I've not seen any of them supporting men's right to reproductive choice. Not one.

The argument women use is one of "bodily autonomy", but studies show the vast majority (96%) of abortions are for reasons like not being emotionally ready to become a parent, not wanting a child to interfere with education or career plans, not being in a stable relationship or not having the financial means to support a child. In other words, all the same reasons men might not be ready to become a parent.

https://www.umassmed.edu/news/news-archives/2019/05/who-are-the-1-in-4-american-women-who-choose-abortion/

So the bodily autonomy argument is disingenuous at best, but they have to use it because the true reasons women choose abortion are the same ones men have to not want to become a parent, but don't have the right to exercise like women had before Roe v. Wade was overturned. It's about personal autonomy, not bodily autonomy, and both women and men should have equal rights to personal autonomy.

I'm talking about men having the right to a "paper abortion", which means signing away all their parental rights and responsibilities early enough in the pregnancy that the mother could still choose to have an abortion. That would require that women must notify the father she is pregnant, but today men don't have the right to know they have a child, born or unborn. A woman can have a man's child and never tell him, or she can choose to tell him years later and demand child support having already robbed the father of many years with his son or daughter.

So guys... if women were more supportive of YOUR right to "personal autonomy" and to know you have a child in the world, would you be more likely to advocate for women's right to personal autonomy (i. e., abortion)?

1) I’m short. Only 5’10”

2) I don’t have a big penis. Only 6”

3) I’m not rich. I’m a college student.

4) I’m reserved. I’ve only had about 2-3 close friends at any one time. And I don’t go out and do things that often with other people. Prefer to just “chill out” on most days.

5) Very family oriented and have long term goals of marriage and children.

6) I’m not really that muscular or anything. I just look like an average run-of-the-mill type guy.

7) I always try to dress decently and look nice, but I don’t necessarily happen to turn every head in the room either and have girls flirting with me.

8) I don’t believe in having premarital sex. Just not something I feel comfortable with doing. Marriage is definitely the ideal time for me.

9) I go to church every week and I don’t believe in abortions or birth control. I believe in being responsible and trusting in God’s plan even when its difficult.

10) I don’t support the LGBTQ community or believe in any sort of woke BS relating to BLM. Such types piss me off.

11) I’m proud to be a white male and I feel no shame in being one and do not feel a personal responsibility to apologize to other people for it.

12) My ideal woman is someone who’s romantic and affectionate and actually thoughtful and grateful towards me. Not someone who just demands things and expects them from me.

Anyways. Do I actually stand a chance?