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Usually I find it quite silly when someone says they would rather save an animal than a human, but in the case of the type of people mentioned in the title, I do actually kind of understand it given this context/scenario.

If you're wondering "what kind of animal"... any animal, really. Any animal that isn't a human being. Cat, dog, flea, mosquito, lizard, frog, shark, snake, bed bug, cockroach, tick, snail, slug, worm, monkey, dolphin, centipede, tarantula, hippo, polar bear, wasp, etc, whatever.

Usually given most contexts i'd save the human, but for those type of people... I don't know... I just don't know if I can have any sympathy for them...

I have been working at my current company for almost 2 and a half years now. I've recently developed a crush on a colleague, but we've always had a flirty relationship. However, due to our situations, it would be almost impossible to have a relationship together. He's always been lovely to me and the flirting included things like him doing silly things to get my attention, staring at me, prolonged/strong eye contact, going out of his way to help me, seeming jealous about other men, organising the gifts/cards for my 30th birthday etc etc. I've always felt fairly confident that he felt the same way.

HOWEVER, a few weekends ago, we met up on a night out. I had too much to drink and I ended up telling him that I really liked him as more than a friend. I asked him if he liked me back, to which he said "you're a lovely person". I kept asking him, being persistent with it - he kept repeating “you’re a lovely person” and I eventually said "just answer the question", to which he replied "yes, I do but we can't be together etc". I think we had a few quick kisses on the lips, not a proper kiss, but a peck.

The day after, I apologised to him for potentially putting him in an awkward position, to which he said "don't worry about it".

The next week at work, he apparently wasn't aware of what happened. I told him that I had kissed him and he looked shocked, saying "that's not ideal, I wouldn't have kissed you properly". For the rest of the week, he barely spoke to me and was hot and cold in his behaviour towards me.

He has gotten better but he doesn't flirt with me like he used to before all this happened. He has shown being jealous because he overheard me saying I was going on a date. I saw him look in my direction and when I told him to have a nice weekend, he abruptly said “bye”

Was there any truth in him telling me that he likes me? Does he still like me? If so, why is he being weird?

There is this guy that I work with. We are a pretty small department and he’s lovely to everyone so it would be difficult to see if he was into me.

We have a lot of banter and get along really well. He will do silly stuff to get my attention such as grabbing my hair clip, touching my keyboard etc.

We also make a lot of eye contact and I have caught him staring at me. On a night out, when he’s had a drink, he will hug me endlessly but won’t touch me at work.

But, this is where I have no idea, he will make jokes/comments that make it sound like he finds me hideous. He said about going for a nap, and I said “I’d like to go too”. Straight away he said “separate beds!”

And then the other day I made a joke about being into men with beards, to which he replied “does anyone have a razor?”

But he has made jokes about me being crap at my job. When I’ve called him out on it he will say he thinks I’m amazing at my job. So I don’t know if he’s disguising the fact that he is into me.

There is this guy that I work with. We are a pretty small department and he’s lovely to everyone so it would be difficult to see if he was into me.

We have a lot of banter and get along really well. He will do silly stuff to get my attention such as grabbing my hair clip, touching my keyboard etc.

We also make a lot of eye contact and I have caught him staring at me. On a night out, when he’s had a drink, he will hug me endlessly but won’t touch me at work.

But, this is where I have no idea, he will make jokes/comments that make it sound like he finds me hideous. He said about going for a nap, and I said “I’d like to go too”. Straight away he said “separate beds!”

And then the other day I made a joke about being into men with beards, to which he replied “does anyone have a razor?”

But he has made jokes about me being crap at my job. When I’ve called him out on it he will say he thinks I’m amazing at my job. So I don’t know if he’s disguising the fact that he is into me.