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He flirts but makes comments like this?

Anonymous

There is this guy that I work with. We are a pretty small department and he’s lovely to everyone so it would be difficult to see if he was into me.


We have a lot of banter and get along really well. He will do silly stuff to get my attention such as grabbing my hair clip, touching my keyboard etc.


We also make a lot of eye contact and I have caught him staring at me. On a night out, when he’s had a drink, he will hug me endlessly but won’t touch me at work.


But, this is where I have no idea, he will make jokes/comments that make it sound like he finds me hideous. He said about going for a nap, and I said “I’d like to go too”. Straight away he said “separate beds!”


And then the other day I made a joke about being into men with beards, to which he replied “does anyone have a razor?”


But he has made jokes about me being crap at my job. When I’ve called him out on it he will say he thinks I’m amazing at my job. So I don’t know if he’s disguising the fact that he is into me.

He flirts but makes comments like this?
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