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I want to get feedback on my partner:

- She’s not keen on me seeing friends, for my safety and would rather I met them with her. She also uses the find my iPhone feature with me.
- She messages me and phones various times per day, and gets frustrated if I don’t reply quickly, she says it’s to check I’m ok,
- She tracks my spending on her, to check we’re in budget. Even if I a buy a coffee she’s brings it up and asks why I bought it.
- She’s says if I don’t spend $$ on her birthday present I don’t love her. Also said her birthday needs to be “perfect” with hundreds of balloons etc and fancy cake.
- She doesn’t like me having a female friend at work, has told me to stop going to lunch with her. Said it’s to ensure I don’t “cheat”. She messaged my friend at work on Facebook to ask about me.
- My partner doesn’t like me following other girls on social media even friends.
- She told me I can’t have anyone better than her.

Is she a good partner? I’m really conflicted as this is my first relationship. My female friend said there is red flags everywhere, is she right?

It kind of caught me off guard. I have said I love you before because I am interested in her, and she knows this. I joked about marriage and she looked at me like I was being weird and told me to relax because she wasn't interested like that, but she did love me as a friend.

This time I said I hope she has a great day, and she said "okay thanks, I hope you do too. I love you."

After a little shock, I said I love you too.

Later in the day, we talked about something cute and I said "this would be perfect when we're married"

She said while smiling and sounding genuine "Yeah. Sure"

I often find myself wondering, what do perfect looking women look for in a guy? What is it?